i remember perfectly every moments how we treat them,everytime my parents goes 2 market for household,they will ask maid if they want anything,just pick n my parents will pay,no matter shampoo,or foods or anything,but they usually will overhead us after some time.started 2 be lazy,started 2 steal foods .we dont mind if they want to eat or what,just that,if u want to eat,grab a chair and use a spoon instead of dipping ur fingers into our soupy foods to grab a piece of small chicken or prawn or etc.and one more thing we want they to be hardworking and not to take advantage on us,some even dare to pinch my nephew/niece .it leaves a big bruised sometimes.sometimes they know how 2 talk back whenever we corrected them.even worse some even dating with outsiders or our neighbourhood.imagine that.we experienced same maid again n again.till we bought dishwasher machine and all worked by machine,unless for sweeping n mopping works.now we're happier without maid,eventho that's a lil bit tiring.