Sure is mucho anti-Islam sentiments in here. The TS did not ask you how much you hate Islam, or about your terribly misinformed views about it (LOL ALL MUSLIMS ARE NARROW-MINDED, INFLEXIBLE TALIBANS LOLOL), nor did he ask you about how he should give the religion the finger after marrying the girl.

All he asked was about how to deal with his parents' funeral. Take your 'I HATE ISLAM DAMMIT ALL' rhetoric to Real World Discussion where 90% of the people there are like you. Heck, the mods there tolerate that bs too.

Now, TS, you might as well ask the experts and that means nobody from this forum. Contact JAIS, or as someone brilliantly pointed out, ask Ustaz Redhuan Tee about it. If anyone could answer doubts faced by a convert, the latter definitely could.

All the best ; your dilemma is understandable.