i am an otaku myself, collect comic books, sports shoes and spend many money in it.

have about 2 racks full of it also. hahaha, but i also go drink, clubbing, hang around with others and do mostly what other normal ppl do.

being otaku doesnt mean u need to be socially inactive and hide urself. be more open on urself and go out experience everything, life is too short to be wasted around thinking that is not suitable for me, this is not suitable for me.

go get a girl outside and honest is a must but not telling your whole history in the first date. even the girl will feel boring. instead first date just listen to what she wanted to say and just look at her eyes, not her chest!!!