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*~Single's Club v237~*, For all those lovely sexy people
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:09 AM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ May 24 2010, 01:06 AM) How is it memorable if your current path is full of spikes?  hmmm.. I think I shouldn't get you all into emo mood.. just forget about it ba.. already dying.. he is trying hard to save everything but I just can't do it.. I just pretend to be good sometimes
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:14 AM
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QUOTE(Jamien @ May 24 2010, 01:10 AM) Hi Sweetie. Sorry if you feel it's inappropriate that I comment but I think that if he can't stay loyal to you now, he never will.  A cheating guy will always cheat again. So I left my ex of 5 years. If you're going to ache and cry, I think we should do it for a person who's worth it. Just my 2 cents. XD 1 year apa I agree with you  sometimes, he's good.. so it confuses me
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:23 AM
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QUOTE(Jamien @ May 24 2010, 01:20 AM) But he's only good for a while right? I think that he may be good to you for several reasons. One is that he's guilty so his being nice to you is a way of him compensating you. Secondly, he thinks he can't find a girl who would treat him as well as you, so he is being good to you to keep you. But it doesn't mean anything if he isn't loyal to you right?  I waited year after year for him to change. In the end it wasn't worth it, dear. If anything, I'm glad I left him. I was sad for quite a while but after that, it was like the weight on my shoulder was gone, and I was happy. I realized that I had been sad for years. Even my family and EXTENDED family says so. hmm.. glad that you have done sth best for you.. I wish I could move on like you, one day  if it's only the first time, still acceptable but, it's more than 5 times edi doing the similar thing
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:26 AM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ May 24 2010, 01:25 AM) Gather your strength to face any eventualities Change for better or worse. You do love him very much. I should learn to let go instead of loving a person like him don't even know how to appreciate me
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:28 AM
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ May 24 2010, 01:27 AM) That's the way it should be. hahaha.. okok
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:34 AM
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QUOTE(Jamien @ May 24 2010, 01:30 AM) I think you should think it through. It's what I did. I reviewed my life with him for five years and realized that I was super sad and that I deserved better. I had never been unfaithful for even one day in that 5 years. He cheated on me at about once a year? I couldn't stand it anymore at the end of the five years. Sometimes it's not just about him, we should also care for our own happiness right? We're with someone not because we need to be. We're with someone because we want to be.  So the mutual want and love for one another is what makes a relationship beautiful and intimate. Being in a relationship should be a happy and wonderful experience.  I also read somewhere that if he's with you, and he repeatedly cheats on you, then you're just not the girl that he's willing to be loyal to, even on a subconscious level. agreeeeee.. but I am afraid I am not firm enuff on my decision.. later he talks talks talks then I forgive him again  Added on May 24, 2010, 1:35 amQUOTE(Kampung2005 @ May 24 2010, 01:30 AM) Good luck That's your phone model? lol.. yea This post has been edited by Sweetie89: May 24 2010, 01:35 AM
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Sweetie89
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May 24 2010, 01:47 AM
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QUOTE(Jamien @ May 24 2010, 01:44 AM) That's why you should really think on it, and be determined that you made the right decision. It'll take a while but you'll get there. Don't cheat yourself. If something isn't there, then it isn't.  I never regretted my decision. hmm.. thanks for sharing your experience with me.. I will think deep about it  shall I see how thing goes?
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Sweetie89
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May 27 2010, 03:22 AM
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Everyone's sleeping?
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 12:44 AM
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stresssssssss
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 12:46 AM
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studying
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 12:51 AM
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not enuff time edi.. then I slacked too much b4 this.. the pc is a distraction
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 12:53 AM
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Lol. Missed skul days
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 12:57 AM
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Lol. Nice view  cannot turn off pc la.. need to destress also
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 01:00 AM
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Eat grass also stress? What so stressful wor, cow cow
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 01:14 AM
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why wanna make ppl feeling hungry
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 01:18 AM
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we cannot go back to time
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Sweetie89
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May 31 2010, 01:28 AM
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nitessss
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