Can't you just take care of him at your home? or get a nurse to take care of him in the house instead of bringing him to nursing home? If you can pay for nursing home, perhaps you can get him a nurse in your house. Care taker at nursing homes are not very gentle and nice with old people but at least a nurse you can still keep an eye.. (get a cctv) ..lol.

Makes me wonder if your children would bring you there when you're old and handicapped