let me tell u one thing.. ur first love will be the best but also the worst.

in other words, if u dont feel for that person, no matter what pressure it is to have a bf is on u.. DO NOT GO FOR IT!!! n the last thing u wanna do is to jump into a relationship.

ppl might say u're choosy, u're demanding, u're this n that. but truth be told, they just feel u're just closing up on the options. n for u, its not what u really want.

its true bout not putting too high on the expectations. its rare to find a 'fairy tale wedding' but again.. remember that all fairy tale have a continuation of which most writers will just put it as "happy ever after" which meant.. there will be arguments, fights, disagreement, frustrations, stress n etc.

therefore, take it slow. do it when u feel its right. =) there's no pressure on it. no matter ur age. n when u pressure urself on it, u'll tend to end up with the wrong guys.