Cool, no problemo. Now that you have calm down, I'm going to try to explain what tanoshi means from his reply.
For your info, tanoshi have stayed in Tokyo for quite awhile, so he did not meant that you will never get to Japan, instead the reply was about "your wishes same like mine when i was...BUT I bet you cant make it" was in regards to your post saying "I wish to
gather Malaysians who stay at Japan". He tried that being very friendly with other Malaysians in Japan, but if wasn't much of a success due to the culture of Japanese society, where by they are overtly self-centered. I know a lot of my Malaysian friends who have stayed there for more than 1 year, most of them have adapted to the Japanese culture. So, it is a huge ambition to gather Malaysians in Japan, where even our embassy failed to do that

Btw, the term Japs is/was considered as an insult to the Japanese back then. I would politely use Japanese.
Please use Google for any definition of words that you are unsure, if that fails, then only you should ask here. Search for "gaijin" and "couch surfing" if you please.
I wonder why would anyone who are staying in Shinjuku Washington would be willing to sleep on the street. My recommendation is to downgrade your accomodation to a cheaper place, and use the extra cash to get a proper place to stay for the rest of your trip. I would recommend you to try out Ryokan, Capsul Hotel, and other type of accomodation as well.
arigatou senpai, you understood me lorrrr...haish I also stress when back to Malaysia hahaha....have to start a new life again....oh ya, in www.gaijinpot.com also my self advertising 'Mover Service for sale' this is the best place to look for everything anything something thing thing hahaha...seriously from there i've succeed for this