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 When to hold a girl's hand?, first date? second date? third date?

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tech3910
post Feb 25 2010, 10:58 PM

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kiss 1st...den only hold hands....
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post Feb 26 2010, 02:45 PM

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QUOTE(kent_lau7 @ Feb 26 2010, 09:12 AM)
When you understand her family,
her dream,
her past a bit
her dog/pet
her friend
her best friend

and you still like her, then tell her " I want you to be my gf because I really want to protect you"
Then wait for 1 minutes, observe her facial expression
If she didn't say "no"
Then hold her hand.

Congratulate, you are the no longer single anymore.
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u're annoying........
u like a 14 years old teenage girl who watch too much korean love drama..... rolleyes.gif

btw...@ ts, wat school r u from?
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post Feb 26 2010, 07:09 PM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 26 2010, 06:00 PM)
tec3910, I'm 22years old la.. sweat.gif
The last time I was on a date and I can say that its a FIASCO..
The gal din tell me that she had a bf.. and BF turn up in front of us..
Nearly punched me but since I'm overweight, he dun dare..
Which was lucky coz i dun want him lose face in front of his gf by nose-bleeding..bruce.gif

Silverhawk, good suggestion, urs will be PLAN A rclxms.gif
If PLAN A doesn't work, PLAN B (although i din plan PLAN B yet..=.=) sweat.gif  bruce.gif
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i know, but just wondering coz last time i went to an all guys school too.

btw, i nvr forget the speech my principle gav during form 1....
something like dis.....

"v r from all guys school, no chicks here.....but den v al pro 'kai kui'.
y? bcoz for a normal school, got a lot of same age girls, opportunities is there, ready made for the guys edi.
but, v <school name> boys r more advanced. v dun hav 'dinner serve on the place', but v r good enough to go out there, 'kai' girls from other school....
dats y u all will b more pro relationship compared to guys from normal school....."

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wat an inspirational speech..... thumbup.gif
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post Feb 27 2010, 01:47 AM

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QUOTE(wuwu @ Feb 27 2010, 12:30 AM)
Last time i watch movie with a guy on 2nd date.

Then i purposely put my hand on his armrest and slowly drop my fingers towards his side.

Luckily he smart oso la,he slowly grab one finger at a time lor,starting from baby finger.

Then when i no reaction he grab another finger,after a while hor,grab whole hand liaooo..

so 2nd date shud be ok to hold hand lor...but dont grab so hard la,grab gently ma  rolleyes.gif
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dis is wen the girl edi show clear sign she wan her to do dat.......

p/s, there r just some people who dun prefer to hold hands.......
like me....wen i go out wit my girl, i dun hold her hand....(except in cinema, coz it's cold)
it's not dat i dun like her, i'm just not the hold hand type.


Added on February 27, 2010, 1:50 am
QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 01:45 AM)
wuwu, i try did that on 1st date..

I delibrately put my arm on the arm rest in the cinema, leaving a bit space for her hand but she just cross her arm..sad.gif

haha.. i still blame the cinema for not being cold.. dry.gif
Never mind.. There's always a Round 2..
As long not GAME OVER, still got chance geh.. happy.gif
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kiss b4 hold hands....
den wen gran her hand next time, 100% success.... thumbup.gif

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post Feb 27 2010, 02:09 AM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 01:55 AM)
wuwu face pretty ma..
any males under that condition also will do that la.. sweat.gif

tech3910, depends la..
anyway this can be say as my first time getting a gf le..
i dun have a gf b4, so maybe i wanna try hold hand.. blush.gif
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cinema really the best place....
it's cold, no fear of sweaty palm.....

during movie, slowly reach for her hand....
if she dun wan, den she will pull away without a word, coz u can talk in cinema.....
den u can just faham-faham & awkwardly continue the movie.....no big dea.......

another suggestion....get a present for her......
something dat wear on her hand, like ring o bracelet......
show her the present, grab her hand & wear for her b4 she took the chance away....
while u r grabbing her hand, giv some complement, like "dis looks nice on u", o say something sweet......
den say something like....."ur hand r so <compliment word>, i wish i could keep holding it.......(eye contact)"
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post Feb 27 2010, 02:30 AM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 02:24 AM)
giving the signal "U r so desperate" person to her ya.. sweat.gif
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u're talking bout suggestion 1 o suggestion 2?
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post Feb 27 2010, 03:00 AM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 02:40 AM)
both suggestion... might works on some people (maybe u, who knows)..
but thanks 4 ur suggestions

i prefer silverhawk's suggestion rclxms.gif
(try to hold her hand when leading somewhere.. If she dun wan take her hand away, means u success.. If she try take away her hand, say sorry and pretend like nothing happen) rclxms.gif 

Not downgrading myself, but I'm no Takeshi Kaneshiro..
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nah.....shy guy like u....i suggest the cinema idea...coz like i say...the beauty of it.....no talking....

u use the "ops" idea, lets say she buys it....
den i presume dat u will feel shy, happy & slightly giggly in the inside.....
den it's gonna follow up wit som awkward & quiet walking moment........

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post Feb 27 2010, 03:14 AM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 03:05 AM)
ya wei..
can imagine it..
situation:
successfully hold her hand, *arkward moment* hmm.gif
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den u hav a split second to think.....

u wanna break the ice by saying something sweet, o just act casual, like u dun notice & the hand thing isn't a big deal?

decide.............
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post Feb 28 2010, 07:36 PM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 28 2010, 03:49 PM)
good idea..
problem is i dun have a car and i dunno how to ice skate or archerry..
she won't go Sunway... coz she told me..
thannks, guys and gals..
dunno wat i do if u all dun help me.. thumbup.gif
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go time square/pavilion for movie/shopping, sg. wang for sing/roller blade......
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post Mar 1 2010, 01:59 AM

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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Mar 1 2010, 12:39 AM)
time to open another thread: When to confess?  biggrin.gif
KHOdin and ah-kow, i didn't confess yet.. so, i thought that if hold hand first, if she dun hold hand, means that no feeling yet.. means i have to try harder to win her H.E.A.R.T.. sad.gif

Dun worry.. If got chance, i hold hand, if no chance, then no choice, means no hold hand..
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tek her to ice skating o roller blade, confirm not only u get to hold hands, u get body contact..... thumbup.gif

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