kiss 1st...den only hold hands....
When to hold a girl's hand?, first date? second date? third date?
When to hold a girl's hand?, first date? second date? third date?
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Feb 25 2010, 10:58 PM
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kiss 1st...den only hold hands....
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Feb 26 2010, 02:45 PM
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QUOTE(kent_lau7 @ Feb 26 2010, 09:12 AM) When you understand her family, u're annoying........her dream, her past a bit her dog/pet her friend her best friend and you still like her, then tell her " I want you to be my gf because I really want to protect you" Then wait for 1 minutes, observe her facial expression If she didn't say "no" Then hold her hand. Congratulate, you are the no longer single anymore. u like a 14 years old teenage girl who watch too much korean love drama..... btw...@ ts, wat school r u from? |
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Feb 26 2010, 07:09 PM
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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 26 2010, 06:00 PM) tec3910, I'm 22years old la.. i know, but just wondering coz last time i went to an all guys school too.The last time I was on a date and I can say that its a FIASCO.. The gal din tell me that she had a bf.. and BF turn up in front of us.. Nearly punched me but since I'm overweight, he dun dare.. Which was lucky coz i dun want him lose face in front of his gf by nose-bleeding.. Silverhawk, good suggestion, urs will be PLAN A If PLAN A doesn't work, PLAN B (although i din plan PLAN B yet..=.=) btw, i nvr forget the speech my principle gav during form 1.... something like dis..... "v r from all guys school, no chicks here.....but den v al pro 'kai kui'. y? bcoz for a normal school, got a lot of same age girls, opportunities is there, ready made for the guys edi. but, v <school name> boys r more advanced. v dun hav 'dinner serve on the place', but v r good enough to go out there, 'kai' girls from other school.... dats y u all will b more pro relationship compared to guys from normal school....." wat an inspirational speech..... |
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Feb 27 2010, 01:47 AM
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QUOTE(wuwu @ Feb 27 2010, 12:30 AM) Last time i watch movie with a guy on 2nd date. dis is wen the girl edi show clear sign she wan her to do dat.......Then i purposely put my hand on his armrest and slowly drop my fingers towards his side. Luckily he smart oso la,he slowly grab one finger at a time lor,starting from baby finger. Then when i no reaction he grab another finger,after a while hor,grab whole hand liaooo.. so 2nd date shud be ok to hold hand lor...but dont grab so hard la,grab gently ma p/s, there r just some people who dun prefer to hold hands....... like me....wen i go out wit my girl, i dun hold her hand....(except in cinema, coz it's cold) it's not dat i dun like her, i'm just not the hold hand type. Added on February 27, 2010, 1:50 am QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 01:45 AM) wuwu, i try did that on 1st date.. kiss b4 hold hands....I delibrately put my arm on the arm rest in the cinema, leaving a bit space for her hand but she just cross her arm.. haha.. i still blame the cinema for not being cold.. Never mind.. There's always a Round 2.. As long not GAME OVER, still got chance geh.. den wen gran her hand next time, 100% success.... This post has been edited by tech3910: Feb 27 2010, 01:50 AM |
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Feb 27 2010, 02:09 AM
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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 01:55 AM) wuwu face pretty ma.. cinema really the best place....any males under that condition also will do that la.. tech3910, depends la.. anyway this can be say as my first time getting a gf le.. i dun have a gf b4, so maybe i wanna try hold hand.. it's cold, no fear of sweaty palm..... during movie, slowly reach for her hand.... if she dun wan, den she will pull away without a word, coz u can talk in cinema..... den u can just faham-faham & awkwardly continue the movie.....no big dea....... another suggestion....get a present for her...... something dat wear on her hand, like ring o bracelet...... show her the present, grab her hand & wear for her b4 she took the chance away.... while u r grabbing her hand, giv some complement, like "dis looks nice on u", o say something sweet...... den say something like....."ur hand r so <compliment word>, i wish i could keep holding it.......(eye contact)" |
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Feb 27 2010, 02:30 AM
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Feb 27 2010, 03:00 AM
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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 27 2010, 02:40 AM) both suggestion... might works on some people (maybe u, who knows).. nah.....shy guy like u....i suggest the cinema idea...coz like i say...the beauty of it.....no talking....but thanks 4 ur suggestions i prefer silverhawk's suggestion (try to hold her hand when leading somewhere.. If she dun wan take her hand away, means u success.. If she try take away her hand, say sorry and pretend like nothing happen) Not downgrading myself, but I'm no Takeshi Kaneshiro.. u use the "ops" idea, lets say she buys it.... den i presume dat u will feel shy, happy & slightly giggly in the inside..... den it's gonna follow up wit som awkward & quiet walking moment........ This post has been edited by tech3910: Feb 27 2010, 04:21 PM |
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Feb 27 2010, 03:14 AM
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Feb 28 2010, 07:36 PM
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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Feb 28 2010, 03:49 PM) good idea.. go time square/pavilion for movie/shopping, sg. wang for sing/roller blade......problem is i dun have a car and i dunno how to ice skate or archerry.. she won't go Sunway... coz she told me.. thannks, guys and gals.. dunno wat i do if u all dun help me.. |
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Mar 1 2010, 01:59 AM
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QUOTE(ExcaliburC @ Mar 1 2010, 12:39 AM) time to open another thread: When to confess? tek her to ice skating o roller blade, confirm not only u get to hold hands, u get body contact..... KHOdin and ah-kow, i didn't confess yet.. so, i thought that if hold hand first, if she dun hold hand, means that no feeling yet.. means i have to try harder to win her H.E.A.R.T.. Dun worry.. If got chance, i hold hand, if no chance, then no choice, means no hold hand.. |
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