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 Argument on Ping Kam, Chinese Wedding Custom/Tradition

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Gary1981
post Apr 26 2011, 02:21 PM

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Mine is RM10k inclusive everything, pig, biscuits, & etc. No any tables required by them.
Gary1981
post May 4 2011, 08:43 AM

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@tech3910

No offense. IMHO, what is a value for selling a child to a parents would you think?It may be 1k, or 10k or even 100k or even 1million? When a parents let a guy married their daughter, what is their feelings especially for their mum? Will my daughter will be good after married?Do you know the ping kam they got may return back to their daughter or perhaps saved it for their daughter case need it in future?

However, it depends on your capability in term of $$ to give to your parents.


Added on May 4, 2011, 8:48 am
QUOTE(Winning11 @ Apr 17 2011, 10:10 AM)
question.

what do we guys have to give to the parents during 'guo dai lai'?

both of our parents are the super casual type. and her parents are not taking the pork and all the fancy2 stuff as my wife is of mixed parentage

or i just pass them a cheque?? tongue.gif

and no. it is just a small amount of appreciation. not until rm10k sweat.gif
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I will write them a cheque for the agreed ping kam. And a ear ring from my mum for my wife. Will expedite this coming end May.smile.gif

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Gary1981
post May 4 2011, 11:21 AM

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@xecton

"what is a value for selling a child to a parents would you think?It may be 1k, or 10k or even 100k or even 1million?"

Apologize for not being specific. My above phrase is meant to people that comment the ping kam that request from the parents are relation to selling their daughter. To sell a child is not only abt 10k, 100k or whatever. There are no specific value to raise a child.

 

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