If the whole marriage involves only me and her, that's wrong.

Families will always be part of it, like it or not....

In-laws, this and that......can't just ignore them.

Anyway, it is still too early to talk about this, haha

no u missed nothing. Kampung think of marriage because Idonnou ate something same like wedding dinner. XD

marriage topic?.. my mum nag to me every chance she get
dunno la.....i should be thinking about it but...

This post has been edited by laksaUTARA: Feb 26 2010, 11:17 PM

lololol how old are you?

considered should have a baby already laa...

lol... I think they should only be involved with the makan session... nothing else...

I think if they get too involved also not healthy oso... After theey bring in nonsense like some tradition crap and etc...

I prefer that my significant other and I both are involved in "PLANNING" our wedding... lol!

Time for us to nag you...

can i nag u too?

Still can what... Science and adoption are among the two options you have...

please dun la......

or i just can change my mode to .."DENIAL MODE"

la~la~la~la~ i dun hear anything.. la~la~la

This post has been edited by laksaUTARA: Feb 26 2010, 11:24 PM

Cannot...

I don't mind chinese tradition, it's fun. it's just 1 day.

adoption... my mum always said..
u have baby normally ..just make baby normally laa
ADOPTION?.. out of Q already

Indian tradition full of nonsense... Astrology, followed by numerology, then followed by exchange of dowries, and then followed by so many prayers , after that, some nonsense of staying at parents place, then oni move out and stay on your own...

I want mine to be different... That's why I want someone who's modern minded, but at the same time has values and a level of principles... lol! but nothing to do with race, religion or culture... That's why I won't be looking at race and culture, but rather the personality of that person if I do decide to search for my significant other...

This post has been edited by bluephoenix87: Feb 26 2010, 11:29 PM

adoption is the last alternative for me.
unless asked by someone , still can consider.

Your mom actually tells you that... lol!

Adoption is never too late, but I heard its really difficult to do it la... lol!

ya lah,, since she nag me soo much,
but yeah, adoption is my last resort..

hah i can't think of any "new" way so just follow tradition. then my religion very simple only. get married in Church, priest announce, tada, end. not even 2 hours. Tradition one is the one that need to go out of house 3 times (now modern, just use car reverse gear 3 times) then serve male's parents tea... then 8 course dinner! can't think of anything else.

my fault..sorry

lol! Jangan la... Your mom really wants a grandchild huh? But the question is, are you keen of having a child?

Haha... So much better than what Indians do traditionally, I just want go register at whatever office, after that a small makan, then go straight honey moon ...

oh ya female asking for angpow part seems like scary part. maybe u seen it in TV. but i never see it in my relative's wedding.

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Added on February 26, 2010, 11:38 pmsayang sayang.

This post has been edited by toda_erika_II: Feb 26 2010, 11:38 PM