Hello there..just really want to konw what it mean by 'teman tapi mesra'??not that Ratu song..i mean what is it in our relationship..i'm asking that kind of question because..my special friend keep answering that word.."we just teman tapi mesra.." she said..every time if i ask about our relationship..same answer she gave to me..but i don't know what she mean by that ..help me..
hope u all can help me find the answer..


[edit] so..thanks for comment in this topic so next step..what should i do??need really great advise..

This post has been edited by olen: Feb 7 2010, 07:37 PM

teman = friend

tapi mesra = close

she treat u as a close friend only

aiyak..just as a closed friend..but i really love her..she also says that she love me when i'm force him to answer about our relationship..sometime she "rasa bersalah" to me...that mess me up..

This post has been edited by olen: Feb 6 2010, 05:24 PM

she really like u..
she really love u..
she love to spend time with u..

but.. as a fren oli.
that is wat "teman tapi mesra".
go find other gurl.. there are many chicks out there.. juz keep lookin.
u will find 1.

i always think teman tapi mesra is the stage where more than a friend, but less than a lover.

which means she might like you, but dunwan to be chained to you as your gf.

just fren..

Nazanto>hard to forget her lo..3 years relationship...her parent also know about our relationship..my parent also know..but to her..i'm just her closed friend i'm giving everything to her..to make her love me..but she said 'we just teman tp mesra'
emino>i think u r right..but..as u say like that..sometime i'm asking her why she don't want to be my gf..she just trying to open new topic..but..she so friendly to me..almost everyday she will talk to me or replying my sms..

This post has been edited by olen: Feb 6 2010, 05:40 PM

That somehow shows that she doesn't want to commit into any serious relationship yet but still maintain a close contact with you.

Macam FuBu la.

BlueWind>yeah..i think its true man..
igor_is300>FuBu??aiyak..not that la..she's not that kind of person..huhu
so...if she just treat me as a closed friend or another word that u mention before..what should i do next??try to make her fall in love at me or what??really need good solution..

This post has been edited by olen: Feb 6 2010, 06:33 PM

dalam konteks bahasa indonesia..teman tapi mesra actually mean... a skandal..an affair.. itu yang sebenarnya... u can do anything but not up to the extend u can marry her...

teman sahaja, teman biasa, bukan teman wanita, tetapi mesra, sangat mesra sehingga boleh bermesraan.. adakah ini...


FUBU?

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Added on February 6, 2010, 6:50 pmtry to "test water". hold her waist...hand raba-raba a bit..move slowly to the mountains/hills.... if she slaps you, means not fubu.

kidding. don't try.

This post has been edited by toda_erika_II: Feb 6 2010, 06:50 PM

sorcerer>thanks for the info..huhu..
toda_erika_II>not that mesra...just word 'teman tp mesra'..aiyak..since i know her..i'm not the person who always 'mengambil kesempatan'.
i love her so much..just she didn't realize that..what should i do..

simple

its look like are couple but it not

use five steps

are you muslim? if not, then can make use of 14 feb. if yes, any day will do.

which day it doesn't matter.
just let her know "dowan to be teman tapi mesra. want to be teman lelaki/suami hahaha.

ok ok i better get serious.
there's a saying says "never try never know". try to court her lol if you really really love her.

toda_erika_II>funny lol..i tried before..but..she just keep away from the topic..but..2 or 3 time..she reply with positive answer..
kintsuchi>aiyak..i'm not a person who can 'pura-pura' about relationship..
eb0nY & iv0ry>what step??

This post has been edited by olen: Feb 6 2010, 07:02 PM

hmm maybe give her more time and see how thing goes.

toda_erika_II>3 years old our relationship bro..how many years she need....aiyak..onemorething..when she think she boring..she will sms me..n ask me to cheer her up..
Lollypop7>never tried to use that method..but..u just guess that..i'm speechless.. ..am i not a good person for her..just she know it...

This post has been edited by olen: Feb 6 2010, 07:31 PM

can't help. wait for someone more experienced here to help