QUOTE(bear1305 @ Feb 25 2005, 10:54 PM)
i guess its not only attitude or only safe trader tag,i guess both too is needed also added with good ethics..
on the other hand..
people should not juz jump into a conclusion tht tsk83(an example) is trying to con people there iwth their cash/graphic card as they do not have enough solid proof too as i am keeping an eye on the thread and there is no solid proof as all of it is vague.
attitude of buyers too is important as sellers especially here is doing everyone a favour by going all out in getting stuff at a cheap price,but wat they get in return is flames and harsh words and harsh/hard accusitons being thrown at them...
i see this is totally not fair seeing tsk83 track record too which is good too.
its totally not fair for a seller to be treated like tht,though at some points tsk83 did a few mistakes like not informing buyers of circumstances but seeing wat he is going thru i totolly understand wat he is going thru as it happened to me once before too.
sometimes buyers juz do not understand..
because of this i feel its not only a seller responsibility here..but also the buyers responsibility in making a bulk a success...
alos..trust,spirit of understanding each other too..(remember we r in a forum,a community,and we r supposed to understand each other and not treat someone else juz like a nobody juz when a glitch happens..its something like the malay proverb..kacang lupakan kulit...means when we nvr appreciate someone for wat they have done)
common lar bear bear... i oso got a proverb... better be safe den be sorry...
dis is a forum as u said.. i believe u haf got
"quite" a record for yrself...
and refering to tsk's case... IMHO, its neither buyer or seller's fault.... its cause buyer lost contact.. and seller is out of town.. and of course... seller has the rite to question and comment wat... if u wanted trust... u better be RESPONSIBLE ...
and agian.. dis is a forum...online... its kinda hard to lay trust on someone who has a bad record rite..
so which is y... effective method must be deployed.. if not... more and more innocent people's hard earned cash will be cheated... and eventually.. leading a bad name for this forum.. which is very sad...
This post has been edited by hueyseng84: Feb 26 2005, 03:02 PM