I can't decide if I am an INTJ or an INFJ.

Well, if I understand what you wrote correctly, you are absolutely right! You are describing someone who uses his/her intuition more, am I right? I am definitely not the sensing kind of person.

I am definitely more of a judger than a perceiver. And though I have some qualities of an extrovert, I can tell that I am more of an introvert.

The problem here with me is that I am not sure if I am a thinker or a feeler. Maybe I am borderline.

I've always thought that I was a thinker and an INTJ. I make decisions based on rational and logical thinking. I never let my feelings cloud my perception of a certain situation.

But after that recent events has made me feel a lot of emotions. A hell lot. Since I knew that INTJs are more of introverted feelers (their emotions are centered about themselves), I figured that I was still an INTJ with very strong Fi (introverted feeling) since the strong emotions that I have been feeling are very self centered.

But then another more recent turn of events made me realize that I am an extroverted feeler too. I've realized that I am affected by others' feelings a lot. I always try to make peace whenever there is an argument. I feel uneasy when someone is troubled. I always try to find a win-win situation whenever a conflict arises so that everyone can be happy and satisfied. I'd rather suffer than watch others suffer.

It only applies when I see others suffer right in front of my eyes though. If I hear of people's suffering from the news, for example, I feel nothing.

The thing is, I realize now that I have been an extroverted feeler all along. Which makes me an INFJ... And that is confusing because I do have the qualities of an extroverted thinker and they are pretty strong too.

I do understand that people's personalities are not black and white, cast in stone, distinct. Maybe I am a borderline T/F. But it sure is annoying to me.

So can you help me out? Maybe my reasonings before this weren't correct.. Hmm.