Hi everyone, I can't decide which camera as I have lost touch with the camera world even though I was once an avid slr photographer many years ago (before dslr was invented).   

Originally I had opted for Lumix LX5 becos I want something compact. LX5's Leica heritage and quality also attracted me. Furthermore, I like that it can zoom and autofocus while videoing. Unfortunately it not having any depth of field    for still photography is a BIG minus for me since I like blurry portraits. BTW, I also like existing light photography over flash.

Hopefully you sifu's can give me your advice and suggestion saving me hours googling around. 

Thanks a million!   

Type of camera/lens/accesories :  DSLR + Lens Kit
Budget: RM2-3K
Your Location:  KL
Preferable brand :  Canon or Nikon
Type of photography u want to do :  Portrait & Existing Light Photography
Any specific models in mind? :  Prefer a small body. Don't mind cheap body x better lens.
Any specific features u want? :  If can take HD video with zoom and autofocus functions while taking video that would be a big plus.