You'd be surprised if there are a number of people who have been overseas (predominantly English speaking countries) for a number of years, but still come home with sub par literacy skill in English.

Nonetheless, I do not see TheWinner's inadequacy in the English language. You can understand him and he you. Best not to nitpick on grammatical errors especially in forums, since it serves no real purpose.

Back to topic, from what I see, it looks like you - TheWinner - are mature enough to handle things. After all these years with her, it's just best if you follow your heart than to think things logically. Good luck!