yeah, get her back are the priority since u really loves her
be yourself are more important to 'just listen to her'
never just listen..
I would say
'understand her' and 'treat her good'
just like good old days.. how u used to treat her as who she was and you yourself back then..

I presume that she enjoyed that moment together..

all positive feedback are more than enuff,
do remember that we change with the flow of time..
I would like to highlight on thy 'unbutton..'
this somehow shows 2 possibility
1. A ticket of confirmation (marriage)
2. To please

As for 1., its good if she still whom she are, its gotta be bad if shes looking forward for a wealthy partner since day 1, u did not mention bout 'rich' / 'wealthy', but there r possibilities u will build a career & make good money with phd (she knew this, dont she), and somehow u happens to comes from a wealthy family, this makes a shortcut now..
-to cut it short, it might for $$$-

but perhaps she is not into these, just possibility and as a reminder..

2. Ahem, just for the fun =)

apart from the above, I did feel TS as a selfish guy.
Gf tries to have her bf to accompany her, just to ask for suggestion, but got 'slapped' by bf cox 'Im the $$$ provider', 'spend on mine, dont bother me'

-$$$ makes ones world huh, oh, please-

hey, she needs you not ur $$$!!!

This post has been edited by atlantis2007: Nov 30 2009, 02:45 PM

this shows that u mind she's not from the same class as you are..

did you questioned yourself what if, both of u did it on that night.
The outcome would be different and I believe that 'to test' are totally out of jurisdiction.

anyway, hope that both of you are true on your own ground.