I think the things TS said to her and try to teach her somehow affect her self-esteem...being chided for what she's wearing can be quite demoralizing, but can be made up with more motivation and love from TS, which is rather lacking in this relationship.

TS, if u had spared a thought for her u would have seen what u have missed.

She tried hard for u, trying to fit in like u wanted her to, and yet after all these u agreed to a break up without much thought (this really hurts).

She might have thought if u rly loved her u would have seen what she is trying to express from the request of a break up, but instead u agreed to it so fast u must have left her stunned.

plain cold.
if i'm the girl i'd get the idea that i was right to think that im not good enough for u after all the changes u tried to put me through and u agreed, just waiting to get rid of me.

or i'd get the idea that its just obvious u don't love me anymore, agreeing to breaking up without even any hesitation.

i didn't say u didn't love her, im only telling u one might get that impression from the way u so readily agree with the breakup in case it didn't occur to u before.

if ur sad with the ending, ever tink how much harder it is for her?
after all, she stayed with u even through all of those times, loving u even b4 she noes ur a rich guy, bearing with 5 mins per week conversation in which she still needs to motivate u, and even trying to fit in after she found out that u live in a high class world.

we point these out to u in case u didn't think this way before, so that when u attempt another rship u will be better?

we can only hope i guess.

eh i think u shd work out ur issue with urself and ur dad first.
then only slowly approach her see her response, else proposing her might be too big a shock?
and i don't know if without ur issues ironed out, will the marriage work since ur sooooo about life after marriage etc.

change - saying it is easy, u change already then only u go to her lor.

so if u want to barge into her life once again, make sure u dont crush and then stomped on her heart this time.
else, u stay away is better.
she indeed deserve so much better than someone who don't know how to appreciate her.

erm TS i dont think it has anything to do with the hotel rooms or facial stuffs, its more to urself so perhaps u could be that guy who she fell in love with?

it doesn't hurt to pamper her, but what is more important is you should listen to her now, love her as much as she loves u, treat her right.

ur appearance, even if u change to become ah pek but u still duno how to listen to her, treat her nicely, also no use, so get this right.

u don't have to change ur appearance or whatever, but change to be someone more caring and loving instead.