Dear TS,

Read your post while u are in Malaysia asking for another chance to be with her again.

After reading all your reply, I feel sorry for u. You are just a NERD, who only know how to study but don't know how to apply what you have study. For once, a friend told me, "education is to teach you how to play when u go out there". As a PhD, well I do feel ashamed that you write it out to let people know your education level. You learn how to do business, you learn how to convince other businessman to do business with you but yet you fail to convince your Dad to let you have her as your girlfriend, your soul mate. Ironically, you manage to do something that is similar in business but yet you can't tweak it and apply it in your relationship to make it works.

Your Mom says that your Dad wants to see results. No, he can't see your results. Cause, he won't be there to see your result. You still have many years to live, your result slip wont be given out until you die. If to say results it can only be says as GPA, then your result will be,

Business: A+
Education: A+
Wealth: A
Love: F

You trying hard to prove that you are not a playboy but not trying hard to prove to your Dad that you seriously wants her to be your partner. You proved the wrong thing.

Last time, I was like you, works are more important than love. Once, I ever chat with my Mom. "I'm gonna get a good wife that Mom will likes her a lot." Surprisingly, my Mom answer me back, "I don't care who that girl is as long as you are happy with her and she can take good care of you as I wont live long to take care of you til you die." So, ask your Dad, he wants his only son to live happily or he wants his only son to live sadly?

TS, changing yourself is not going to help if you don't voice out your dissatisfaction. You have to let your parents know and understand. So as if you get her back. You need to tell her how you feel. What if you get her back but then the relationship gives you more burden?

Good luck!