i've been reading the thread from 1st page til page 6-7... couldnt really continue such long story...

but i guess i got most of the point here already. perhaps might miss most recent incident.


so... wats the latest update?
is the Gf u mention refering to her, winnie?
but why suddenly james again? so who is she with now?

anyway wish u all the best in this relationship. i can see where ya came from, i think both of u got own burden being with each others. but i personally dont think these problem should able to wall up in between of u 2.
try communicate more about the problem instead of just enjoy the happy moment only. it helps to improve the relationship between u 2. me n my gf together aint as long as your relationship. once a while we do argue and not feeling comfortable with each others, but most important is bring it out and talk. communicate and make sure it doesnt happen twice.

ur case kinda dramatic to be honest, but i still hope to see happy ending between u 2 in the ending. u got my blessing.