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 A love story from busy guy, My failed relationship

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kienu
post Dec 1 2009, 12:01 PM

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kienu
post Dec 4 2009, 04:56 PM

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QUOTE(spanker @ Dec 3 2009, 07:18 PM)
It never did. Conflict is what makes a person mature. This is the reason why education is important, to provide opportunities for people to disagree with each other, and then learn how to deal with disagreements. What? You think your dad is going to hold a debate competition between your siblings on who gets to have the car over the weekend?

This is also the reason why asians (with the exception of the Elevens) are so immature, it is because they avoid conflict.
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Who are the ELEVENS? - as in the developed countries like SG, Japan n so on? Or what? Kindly enlighten....

P.S : avoiding conflict is not a form of inmaturity...it's just another discreet and unspoken way of agreeing to disagree. Also, what's the point of conflict? Might as well cool down to decipher other ways or alternatives to solve the so-called conflict.....

just my 2 sens! cheers!
kienu
post Dec 7 2009, 10:01 AM

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QUOTE(M@Y @ Dec 5 2009, 09:37 PM)
I've been keeping track of this thread. And now, i wanna voice out my opinion as a girl and also having a traditionalist father.

Yes, i must say that you're selfish, self-centered, arrogant, egoistic... Just like my father. Everything must be about himself, himself, himself. Men and wealth, must be powerful. 'Kiasu', definitely yes.

My brother is the only son in the family. Absolutely, he loves him more than me and my younger sister. I'm sure my mother, my sister and i won't get a penny if he dies.

Ooh how i loathe you so much!

P/S: I must suggest you to marry a woman from a royal family instead.
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Dear May,

I really beg to differ on your points, especially on the second half.

U see, like ur bro, i'm also the only son in the family. however unlike him (to my detriment), i'm totally unloved by my parents due to the 'batu api' and 'role' of my two sisters at home. Partly also bcos my family doesnt like my ex gf but i stood up for her then. I'm a reputable professional while they are not. They are great at 'gosok kasut' while i'm just cool and kayu...so there u go...

Now, with all the problems and disagreements at home, i chose to move out, earn n keep my own money, independence rules! Cheers!

Therefore, kindly don't generalize too much....life goes on baby!


kienu
post Dec 11 2009, 10:25 AM

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QUOTE(outsider @ Dec 10 2009, 12:41 AM)
close this topic la ~~~
the winner always correct...and he always win

we all are loser ~~~~
there no point to argue

let him become ghost haunt her forever .....
i demand close this topic ..... icon_rolleyes.gif
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I SUPPORT THIS!!!


kienu
post Dec 22 2009, 10:26 AM

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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Dec 15 2009, 09:28 AM)
Gal, i like this: We always deceive ourselves twice about the people we love - first to their advantage, then to their disadvantage.

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care to elaborate n enlighten more on this quote?


Added on December 22, 2009, 10:29 am
Look at Winner's closing statements....

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I pride myself on continuing education:
University of Leeds (BEng, Age 19-22)
King's College, London (PhD, Age 22-25)
University College London (PostDoc, Age 28-30)
Current Age: 28 smile.gif

This post has been edited by kienu: Dec 22 2009, 10:29 AM

 

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