Haha..u also here arr!

For lady, there are Pearl series.

But nowaday, lady are looking at feature also.

In Summary
BOLD:
+ point =Bigger screen size, Faster CPU, Bigger keypad, 3G, big internal storage (1GB)
- point = lesser ram (128mb), big size for certain peoples, 2mp cam

8900:
+ point = Highest resolution 480X360, 3.2 mp cam, bigger ram (256mb), smaller size (+ point for me )
- point = EDGE only, less internal storage, slower CPU speed compare to BOLD, smaller screen size

Pearl:
No comment. Didnt play with it before.

Out of 3, I like 8900 more. Using 1 now, But my wife love her BOLD.

3G is not that important especially for BIS. All data are optimised at RIM server. I survive GPRS under maxis for 3 months without any problem.
EDGE should be sufficient for almost all BB features.

Unless U tethering with your BB, then U need 3G.

Anyway, almost 4 days on DG Smart Plan now. So far is good experience since I got EDGE coverage all time. My batt life seem improve a bit also.