Is it a sin to be the only child in family ?, ( Anak Tunggal ) 
Nov 21 2009, 04:36 AM
QUOTE(Sifha238 @ Nov 4 2009, 10:11 PM)
Is it a sin to be the only child in family ( Anak Tunggal ) ?
The problem start when I was 7 years old ( standard 1 ) till now 21 years old ( working )
Primary school - Tend to get bully by some student because of my status. Things only get better when I'm in Standard 5 & 6 due of my physical (tall and a bit muscle) and also I be friend with some "bad student".
Secondary school - I want but can't lie about my status because lots of my neighbour are in same school. No bully this time but student look down on me just because of that. Always call me pampered child ( anak manja ). As usual things get better after 2-3 years when they really know me ( not pampered ).
I go to other school ( my father transfer ) when at Form 3. Things ok there because I lie to all my friend about my status. No one there ever think I'm the only child because they judge my by my attitude without knowing my status.
College - I lie about my status at the first place but they know it later ( cannot avoid ). And as usual they start to change the way they look at me. They accuse my parents did all my stuff for me. From iron my shirt to wash my underwear ( which is not true ). I can get " all things in the world " etc.
Things going well when I having Industrial Training for 6 month at this company. I taught things different between study time and work time, they really didn't care who you are. What matters is what you are.
Work - I get caught at the first place when the interviewer ask my about my family status. I really hope she won't tell anyone in the office, but she did it. I hope working environment different from school / college but it's not any better. One of my college is "mulut celupar". She is the oldest in family so she kind of "hated" any youngest child in family ( never mention only child ). Guess what ? same old same old
Things only gone wrong when people around me know I'm the only child in family. My life is consider stable right now but my friend will sometimes bring up the issue ( likes it's even an issue )
Is it a sin to be the only child in family ?
that is a bless instead of sin, u don't have share anything and your parents will focus only on uThe problem start when I was 7 years old ( standard 1 ) till now 21 years old ( working )
Primary school - Tend to get bully by some student because of my status. Things only get better when I'm in Standard 5 & 6 due of my physical (tall and a bit muscle) and also I be friend with some "bad student".
Secondary school - I want but can't lie about my status because lots of my neighbour are in same school. No bully this time but student look down on me just because of that. Always call me pampered child ( anak manja ). As usual things get better after 2-3 years when they really know me ( not pampered ).
I go to other school ( my father transfer ) when at Form 3. Things ok there because I lie to all my friend about my status. No one there ever think I'm the only child because they judge my by my attitude without knowing my status.
College - I lie about my status at the first place but they know it later ( cannot avoid ). And as usual they start to change the way they look at me. They accuse my parents did all my stuff for me. From iron my shirt to wash my underwear ( which is not true ). I can get " all things in the world " etc.
Things going well when I having Industrial Training for 6 month at this company. I taught things different between study time and work time, they really didn't care who you are. What matters is what you are.
Work - I get caught at the first place when the interviewer ask my about my family status. I really hope she won't tell anyone in the office, but she did it. I hope working environment different from school / college but it's not any better. One of my college is "mulut celupar". She is the oldest in family so she kind of "hated" any youngest child in family ( never mention only child ). Guess what ? same old same old
Things only gone wrong when people around me know I'm the only child in family. My life is consider stable right now but my friend will sometimes bring up the issue ( likes it's even an issue )
Is it a sin to be the only child in family ?
they are just teasing u, because in their mindset the only child will get pampered the most
people won't judge u because of your status, personality and attitude is the main factor
QUOTE(jinkinz @ Nov 5 2009, 04:49 AM)
why lie?
abt ur status.
imma only child, those tat u mention never ever happen in my whole life.
i got 4 kindergarden, 2 primary, 3 secondary.
i travel from south to north, then to kl.
none of those u mention ever effect me.
u dont have to lie, ppl accept for wat u are,
i doubt is because of u being only child is the main cause u having issue with ppl.
i think the problem is U, ur personality.
dont put the blame on ur parents only manage 2 born u.
stayed in Sabah, Kelantan, Johor, Negeri Sembilan for my first 12 years
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