It's not that we don't go out and meet girls. We do. In college, I get to meet girls that I liked but what they said hurt me. One of them ignored me when I showed small signs of advancements. I tried to talk to her and she just doesn't respond. Another one is even worse, saying that I am a boring guy to begin with because I don't go to clubs and I never went to interesting places like discos and pubs. She even went to gay bars before.