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Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24

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SUSKal-el
post Nov 7 2009, 03:28 PM

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QUOTE(vincent_on9 @ Nov 7 2009, 03:24 PM)
i m in uni and yeah chances are there, but i don't feel like getting into a relationship. i can totally feel that girls like me, but in return what am i able to give her?
My family matters, i m not that rich and yet my parents are ..... to bad to say. My dad scarcely ever let me to drive out to hang out with frens, in fact my house got car parked inside there nicely. i m not spending their money much but i spend what i earn from some part time job. i would definitely want to have a "typical or rather normal uni life which can socialize with frens. The thing is even i drive out they keep calling at 11pm like that, asking me to come back immediately, and they were kinda rude when my fren who was sitting beside can heard their voice through my phone.
I am in 21 now i feel shameful to talk about this to my friends.
IMO, I think for a guy to date a girl out, i must have some cash in bank, and a car, and some freedom. which i can't fulfill at the moment.
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so youre implying that if youre dating with a girl then it will cost you(men pay for all the expenses) ?
SUSKal-el
post Nov 7 2009, 03:46 PM

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Nov 7 2009, 03:34 PM)
date is still oklah, but not to the extent of having a relationship
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i agree with this. An average student will get lets say RM500 per month for his expanses, if having a relationship and the girl expect you to pay for her stuffs and entertainments then it will be very hard......there are girls who like to find rich guys just to be entertained and get free ride everywhere, gold-diggers.

Best time to have a relationship is when start working. Dating will be fine if youre a student(no strings attached)
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post Nov 7 2009, 03:56 PM

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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Nov 7 2009, 03:54 PM)
The circle of friends during working life is smaller compare to study life. So the probability to hit a perfect girl is lesser.
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again, dating =/= relationship



 

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