I see that people here are perceiving that never had a relationship till now (age 24) is nothing serious. You know what those non-playing girls told me? They said by the time I meet a right girl and the girl doesn't get serious, I'll be hurt bad because the clock is ticking. They said I won't be that hurt if that happened when I was 18-20 because at that time, it's still for experience. And another point they raised is that because not having any love experiences till now, it is hard for a person like me to understand what my right girl really wants. Even if I get her, she won't stay with me for long because I don't have the knowledge and experience to keep her happy.

However, knowing that this is the problem, I can't go all out to fix it. I tried to get to know girls around me but they just ignore me (don't want to talk more than 2 sentences with me) because they already have a first impression that I am a homey geek. Their first impression on how I look and dress already implanted and they won't try and change it because they think what they perceive is correct. How I wish girls would slow down and come understand me better.

Hopefully you're right in this because I sometimes feel lonely when I see my other friends cuddling with their gfs and I am sitting alone.

As for the 4 reasons, they are not excuses. Try being a homey geek for 24 years and you'll understand what I mean, it's like I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't go out late at night, I don't club, I don't dye my hair. Girls at 20s look down on guys like that.