Serious 24 and still never had a relationship, No gf until now, I am 24
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 Nov 7 2009, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Nov 7 2009, 03:54 PM) The circle of friends during working life is smaller compare to study life. So the probability to hit a perfect girl is lesser. again, dating =/= relationship |
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Nov 7 2009, 05:22 PM
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339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Nov 7 2009, 04:54 PM) The circle of friends during working life is smaller compare to study life. So the probability to hit a perfect girl is lesser. Agree with POYOZER,When studying got girls but no money dating, When working got money but no girls to date... Life just confusing... |
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Nov 7 2009, 05:25 PM
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3,653 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: London, Hong Kong, Subang Jaya & Cyberjaya  
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QUOTE(jacktai @ Nov 7 2009, 05:22 PM) Agree with POYOZER, Same case as this When studying got girls but no money dating, When working got money but no girls to date... Life just confusing...  QUOTE(vkeong @ Nov 5 2009, 01:15 PM) in Uni plenty of time but no money source: http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopi...post&p=29728490working time got money but no time This post has been edited by POYOZER: Nov 7 2009, 05:26 PM |
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Nov 7 2009, 06:17 PM
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6,112 posts Joined: Sep 2006 From: Earth
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 08:26 PM) Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true? I don't think u should put pressure on yourself. We don't all move at the same pace. Having said that, here's a solution if u really want to get into a relationship now. Heed the advice you've been getting from all these women! Go out more, dress up, etc. If u want something, most of the time you'll have to get off your arse and go get it!Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too 'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue? Do give me some feedback on this. |
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Nov 8 2009, 05:34 AM
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81 posts Joined: Nov 2006 From: totoro village
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QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 08:26 PM) Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true? sigh, i understand ur situation~ im a hardcore gamer, so i hardly met gals. dam it, im worry about my future too~ Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too 'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue? Do give me some feedback on this.  |
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Nov 8 2009, 09:05 AM
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Nov 7 2009, 03:54 PM) The circle of friends during working life is smaller compare to study life. So the probability to hit a perfect girl is lesser. very true.. |
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Nov 8 2009, 09:10 AM
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6,112 posts Joined: Sep 2006 From: Earth
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I actually beg to differ. Unless you work in a box, you get to meet new people each day. It then becomes a choice between looking for your friends whenever you are free or, do you spend some time out with your new colleagues? Most of the time it's that people have problems coming out from their conform zones and do not make an attempt at getting to know new people better. I've read so many posts on people falling for their colleagues but no knowing what to do. Heck, organise outings with them then.
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Nov 8 2009, 11:57 AM
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Don't worry la you are only 24. As long as you take it easy it will come naturally. If you are desperate, you will speak differently. It is the same thing how you will sound livelier when you smile and talk vs a sour look +talk.
Added on November 8, 2009, 12:02 pm QUOTE(ezralimm @ Oct 11 2009, 06:49 PM) SO yeah, love is blind BUT Look at all the girls who only got into their first relationship in their 30s. Look at the guys they settled for. Look at all the guys who only got into their first relationship in their 30s. Look at the girls they settled for. I rest my case. Added on November 8, 2009, 12:21 pm QUOTE(B@rt @ Oct 12 2009, 12:55 PM) Sorry i'm late in replying this, I'm not on the forums on weekends. Too many stuff to do preparing for wedding dinner. Anyway what i'm saying is you can't wait too long to get your act together. The good homey pretty girls that you said you like start working around the age of 22-24 and they are picked up fast by guys because they are hot and marriage material. IMHO, there is no such thing as ugly or pretty girls, it is only the one that knows how to dress/grooming are often seen as pretty. Grooming can be taught easily but reducing thickness needs a strong free will as therein lies the problem.This post has been edited by soitsuagain: Nov 8 2009, 12:21 PM |
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Nov 8 2009, 12:30 PM
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Nov 7 2009, 03:54 PM) The circle of friends during working life is smaller compare to study life. So the probability to hit a perfect girl is lesser. this is pretty much "YMMV" because different course/environment will have different experience it also depends on what group of friends you stick to, you know la, in engineering and IT, the ratio of female to male  from my silent observation in classes thesedays, the inter-gender interaction is scarce, got some is a pair of boy and girl, either they are a pair alrdy or other story, but most of the times just can see groups of guys sitting together. Its not that easy also unless you join some activities, but then MMU has since be quite dull since last sem  |
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Nov 8 2009, 12:38 PM
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well, 24 still young dude. Im 23 and still have no gf but been in a few relationship few times. Breakup because my gf dont looks like victoria secret models ..haha..well, i think you just need to wait and at the same time, maybe you go out on a speed date. If you are too shy, then try to imporve your self confidence. Don't worry if some girl reject you. WHo cares. millions of fish in the sea. Most of the girls nowadays still dont have a bf. Even the pretty one also still single because guy find it hard to approach them but the truth is, they are waiting for a guy to approach them. C'mon.. clubbing is not the option because u may find a gf there but most of them are whore. Yes, its true.. hehe.. anyway, what type do you prefer? nerd? geeks? sexy? very religious? just want to know
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Nov 8 2009, 06:16 PM
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I'm 32 and has not pak toh since working. No big deal. No need to worry much. Better appreciate those around you such as family members and friends and enjoy your life as much as possible.
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Nov 8 2009, 06:21 PM
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How on earth this thread can go up to 23 pages?!!
Is there really so many guys hunger for girl friends? |
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Nov 8 2009, 06:22 PM
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14,082 posts Joined: Aug 2009 From: Malaysia
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Nov 8 2009, 07:21 PM) How on earth this thread can go up to 23 pages?!! +1Is there really so many guys hunger for girl friends? U only dunno how desperate ppl can get lol.. ^^ Therefore, can resolve any lonely gurl issue here.. LOL This post has been edited by chiahau: Nov 8 2009, 06:23 PM |
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Nov 8 2009, 07:49 PM
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You can be friends with sexualpower.
Mod/ staff, pls close thread? coz this thread is turning into 'desperados' thread.  |
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Nov 8 2009, 07:56 PM
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QUOTE(euphoria88 @ Nov 8 2009, 07:49 PM) You can be friends with sexualpower. come only straight away lansi. Mod/ staff, pls close thread? coz this thread is turning into 'desperados' thread.  |
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Nov 8 2009, 08:20 PM
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Nov 8 2009, 11:56 AM) come only straight away lansi. woiii  |
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Nov 8 2009, 08:57 PM
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QUOTE(rainbowemo @ Nov 8 2009, 12:29 PM) when working dun have time for a relationship... its ok to say you can't have instead  |
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Nov 8 2009, 09:33 PM
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339 posts Joined: Jun 2008 From: Cheras, KL
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QUOTE(rainbowemo @ Nov 8 2009, 09:29 PM) when working dun have time for a relationship... Anyway time is to be manage, unless you work 7 days a week from 10am- 10pm, then you may don't have time for dating.But anyway, we have rest day, so be fully ultilise the day you rest, date friend or the guy you interest. Or you like me even Sat & Sun the day I rest, I go attend class or study. So then you may out of time for dating. |
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Nov 8 2009, 09:49 PM
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QUOTE(rainbowemo @ Nov 8 2009, 08:29 PM) when working dun have time for a relationship... when working dun have time to make babies too... |
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Nov 9 2009, 12:08 AM
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Nov 8 2009, 01:49 PM) when working dun have time to make babies too... but when working you can have the time for plesure |
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