turn him into a normal guy?

Although I know wanking has the good side, I don't like doing it. If a girl wants to do it for me, fine, if not, no self servicing myself. I am too geeky and homey and that's why girls don't like me. Sad

I like books with nice cover

imho, meeting girls at clubs is not the solution! there are so many ways for you to meet girls. workplace, uni, friend's friends, INTERNET! rofl..
but anyway, 24 is a very young age! study hard, work hard, earn enough and then only get a girl! you don't want your girl to be counting every penny she spend when she's with you right?

Club is definitely not the only place you can find girls.

Probably some people think girls in clubs are hotter?

Yeah I understand what you mean but the problem is, if a girl doesn't look attractive enough, the guys wouldn't even try to know her, not even saying love her. Imagine a realistic situation where a guy has 2 female friends, one attractive but doesn't talk much with him, and another that isn't attractive but talks a lot. For any guy out there, the obvious answer is the guy will try and love the attractive one first. That's how we guys are. I can't deny that but I am like this too. However I am hoping to change my perception.