QUOTE(august.decision @ Mar 2 2011, 10:03 AM)
hi...
i didn't blame anyone....is only myself willing to change the working environment by changing the job or not....out of my comfort zone is easy if i'm single....now as a mother....need to consider my children and family too...so hard to make decision between career and family....
in ur opinion that u cannot accept a company that does not have any chance to shine?
this u need to wait till u found a company that put 1st priorty to seniority but not performance...u will find that althought ur qualification, knowledge and experiance in the field is more than ur manager...however...if u r not working in the company long enough than ur manager....although the total working experiance in the working field is the same...u will only to be hired to assist ur manager....u will never be promoted beyond ur manager position...felt like being used by the company....
lastly...it is all depend on me and myself to change or not....
that y i need to know that the salary that i receive every month/year is still worth that i continue to stay there and enjoy the so-called comfort zone....or go out and explore the new world...not to mention....my whole family need to receive the good or bad impact from the decision i made...so that y i need to evaluate my condition now....it is a matter of worth or not?
somehow i think you already managed to get a grip of the situation yourself.
Don't wait for others to tell you what to do, from your explanation its already obvious that what must be done.
Between family and career, well that is entirely up to you.
No one here is suppose to tell you which to choose.
To me its not a matter of choosing, its a matter of adapting to the environment.
Feb 18 2011, 11:09 AM
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