Shopping for shoes is like walking into a candy store. Now no more lollipops...left only sugar gum...

What will you do when your bf restrict you from buying high heels or giving you a heels quota and you could buy flats only? His reason is for your good sake, doesn't want to see you hobbling and limping around in pain.

This post has been edited by thekinkipinki: Sep 22 2009, 11:59 PM

i'd say ur very lucky cs....he care about u..n even if its about ur feet, he cares too ! mine kept pestering me to walk in high heels..cs all this while ive been wearing slippers wakakaka. how i wish he encouraged me to wear slippers more too or at least flat (s)..

nice bf you have there

Firstly, you've got such a caring bf babe!
Same same, my bf also is somewhat similar, gosh, and keep asking me to buy more flats coz my collection = heels > flats, and if I wear heels when we go out, we both will suffer when I start complaining that it's painful. Lol!

In your case, do you really love heels that much? Can see you do from your quote "Shopping for shoes is like walking into a candy store. Now no more lollipops...left only sugar gum" Well, if you do, then maybe try to 'negotiate' with him on only certain heels that you can buy? Ask him specifically which one he allows and disallows? Suggest to him that you'll buy kitten heels which are about 3-6cm only (if you don't mind), or if you must, then get shoes that are not so high-heeled (and stilettos are a no-no too) - 1.5-3" max; low-heeled pumps, or tell him you'll buy wedgies instead then - they give you height also just like high heels, so much comfier, and most of the time, you can even run around in them, so he will never see you "hobbling and limping around in pain". And most importantly, try to get the cloth type kind of heels when you're out shoe-hunting babe (I think velvet is the best) - they're usually much much much kinder to your feet when you're gonna be out with your bf for a loooooooong time. I speak from experience, hehe. Good luck!

And to your quote, would like to add that although there might not be lollipops left in your 'candystore', besides your 'sugar gum', you can look for other alternatives ohh, like 'chocolates', and 'gummy bears', and 'marshmellows' etc. Lol, so much metaphors! All the best in your shoe-hunting babe! Cheers!

This post has been edited by ShinYi: Sep 23 2009, 05:03 AM

Everyone always think good for someone they care usually the one being cared doesnt appreciate it.

Nice caring bf you have there !

TS,

U have a nice bf there.. he just cares abt u.. do appreciate it n yes i agree try nego a bit with him.. sometimes we gal juz look nice in high heel..

good bf..but he dunno that actually u r in-love with heels

i dont wear heels..i only pakai selipar..cos my bf knows i complain here n there pain...so he ask me to pakai flats also...

Thanks for the advice! It's really help and I appreciate it.
hrmmm...I tried to negotiate with him but sigh...he asked me to choose " HEELS OR ME?"
Wedged shoes with nice boho drawing at the platform was my favorite before. Anyway, they're too bulky and heavy for me now. I opt for something nice and fine.
I'll slowly try out 'Chocolates', 'gummy bears' and ' marshmallows' because they've never been in my candy list before.

This post has been edited by thekinkipinki: Sep 23 2009, 10:49 PM

envy....what a caring bf u have there

TS, u have a good bf... Mine keeps asking me to wear heels altho I've told him it's uncomfortable.. He says "Do it for me... Once in a while?"

I do wear it once ina while, but he doesn't care for my feet... He'll walk over grillings and uneven roads Even when we hold hands?? I'll be stuck over there (how to walk in heels over grills and uneven pavements??) and he'll be unintentionally tugging on my hand... And I have to keep asking him to walk slower - we both have fast pace of walking but thats only wen im in comfortable shoes (slippers, sneakers).

TS, ur bf cares abt u, learn to appreciate it

TS, tell him you wear heels when you go out for short dates like just a dinner and movie where you will do mostly sitting so it doesn't hurt that much.

Relent that when you go shopping or for long whole days you can wear nice ballet flats.