defensive-nya.
I didn't say there was anything wrong with asking, but I should think that after 2 years, you would have a better idea of what suits your relationship instead of asking strangers online about it.

im not being defensive but we're living in a society n like i said, people may have different opinion n im a kind of person who likes to take others opinion into consideration regardless whether its from strangers or not..n yes i should have better idea what suits my relationship but this is not a normal occasion..i want it to be special n different..i may not know the places where i can actually celebrate differently other than celebrate it at the shopping mall like i did last year..

n yeah i also agree with you in not believing that "guys should do everything" coz normally girls are the one who are into this..they're very excited about this kind of things. but i also ask for my bf's opinion with regards to it..im not doing this alone n he's also not doing this alone..this is a kind of thing that we're both involved so its going to be done by both of us..