some times its not just the present but the way the present is presented. lol, unintentional pun. hmmm, u can get her a nice teddy, but dont just "nah, a teddy for u baby"

U're gonna meet up, who's meeting who? if u picking her up, try like, on the phone before meeting up, maybe say u're bringing a "friend" u'd like to introduce her too? and then put your teddy in the front seat where she would seat and put safety belt and flowers. then when u reach she comes to see u, u step out of car, and she'll say where's your friend? then u show her the teddy, take the bouquet of flowers and present it to her. its still a teddy. but 10/10 for presentation. lol

it would depend on your guy's taste? what kinda person he is, more info would be good. but for me no, it doesnt have to be sexual. my gf used to make cards for her ex. i didnt get any. so when i got a really pretty handmade card from her for my birthday finally, i was pretty ecstatic. the thrill of sexual presents tend to end when its over (unless you're the abstinence kind). i prefer sweet romantic experiences to it.