dude.. i freaking dun agree fat guy = fat girl.. really depends on ppl.. u think every girls out there only judge by appearance? hell no way.. your problem like others said is not a problem, it just self-induced..  the only problem u have is u havent met the right person.. u need know more ppl.. whether frens or potential gf.. then u will know that after all u wont rejected by the other sex..

Take time know more ppl.. if u doesnt wan to be fat then do something about from now.. whether u gonna sweat it out or pay money for it.  But if u do it this way, its not u yourself anymore.. think twice..