got a picture?

hmm.

i think 105kg is not a measurement of fat.

people can be heavy but have a big structure / body structure as well.
some are just big sized.

no doubt 105 kg is high, but if it does not show with very obvious love handles or signs of obesity, its entirely different.
therefore, i suggest,

PIC PLS.

and we can tell wehther u are fat or not.

ppl think i'm around 80kg but in fact, i'm 100kg. i'm around 178-180cm.

have you seen body builders then?

and notice their BMI?

alan, i think u are focusing on his shortfalls.

i think being heavy is not a reason not being able to get a date.

if a person brings himself up well, success can happen.
from the way i see it,
TS is insecure about himself.

the only way to deal with it is to work something out since he can't stand his own physical attributes.

other than that, if being able to carry himself well, i don't think there is a problem.