I've said this before, that it isn't jus to do with your weight. If you are overweight, it could reflect attitude and have to do with your personality, in the eyes of not just women but people in particular. If you have weight issues and do not want to work towards rectifying them, one could conclude that you are lazy. Who would choose to go out with someone that is lazy even if he is good looking? If you do not see the need to do something about it, one could also conclude that you are stubborn, sloppy and undisciplined. Now this may all be untrue but like it or not, people do judge others on their appearance. I admire overweight people who take this to heart and work hard to lose their access weight. I know two such friend and although it wasn't easy, they prevailed. Heck on of them was even photographed for a men's magazine. Such was the amount of weight he lost. Being overweight also leads to health concerns.

Now I'm not here to take the piss but rather I'm here to point out how weight issues can sometimes reflect personality. None of the traits I mentioned above are positive ones. I'm not saying people who are overweight won't find women, but it's definitely harder especially if you don't have a personality to compensate. How do you compensate? By having a winning personality but like I said, it's hard for women to think you have one if you don't care much for your physical appearance.