sorry I did not read all 65 pages...
But the first post may work for most girls but beware sometimes it doesn't.

I have a friend who really in love with this girl(who is really close friend of me)

He did everything like make her laugh, bring her to dinners(some really romantic) and buy her gifts and body contact(like touching her hand) but not holding hands or stuff like that.
bare in mind that she is very conservative Asian girl who don't like people touching her.

But after 1 whole year, he confessed, she rejected him.

I asked why she rejected him when he was obviously in love with her and she said, she did not know that he was in love with her and he is not her type(no chemistry). She saw him as a good friend

I tried to be a good bro by trying hard to push her to him like telling he is good looking, got money, super smart and stuff like that and she still refuse to say yes to him.

So please beware guys, best way if you like a girl and want to go out with her, ask her out immediately coz at least wont be as painful when got rejected.

Well same case here.

I am much closer to the girl compared to the guy. She texted me the other day that she went to see the guy even after I told her not to. She wants to say sorry and wants to remain friends but the guy was pestering her by asking her to give reasons why she wont go out with him

She told me she gave reason she likes me to him. but I know she is lying to him

Now I am big trouble coz that guy going to treat me differently.

Here I dont blame the her coz she is naive and innocent but I feel very bad for him coz I was in his shoes once before and I know how much the pain was.(mine was worse, 2 years I tried)

Well I am no expert but by experience, if someone doesn't like you after trying very very hard, maybe spend the effort on someone who would appreciate it.

how long has the girl been chasing the guy. If like couple of weeks then ask her to screw him and find another one.

But if like couple of month or years then a bit difficult to forget bout him,
Best is to advice her to forget and give her sound advices to forget bout him like stop stalking his facebook, stop smsing, or stuff like that.

From a guy stand point, when a guy sets his mind bout a girl, very hard to change it unless the girls changes alot.
So no point dating a guy who doesn't like you for who you are right?

I don't understand why I should stay away from her?

Lol dont worry she cleared her problem. she decided to completely ignore him.

and I dont believe I made it worse for her coz I dont know how I would have made worse for her

haha just spoke to my gf couple of days back

she told me she would have rejected me if I confessed earlier coz she had no feelings towards me

but she realised i was holding her hand alot and sitting close to her, thats the time she fell for me. and she told me one of the reason she likes me is because I remember stuff

now I completely believe this works

This post has been edited by tdw: Feb 19 2012, 08:59 AM