Dude, most of the saps here can't do 1-5. Shieat, they can't even do 1. And those who can tend to scare the girl more often than not. And malaysian women, being the spoilt brats that they are, will treat those who do as "just a friend" because the guy is "fun to be with" and wants the guy to do something dumb like what they see in the HK/TW/KR dramas as an expression of "love".

Come on, you know it's true. Yes, there girls who prefer this western style of courtship, but most are just too.... asian.