Sep 21 2011, 03:42 PM
this is exactly what i did and yes it went smoothly, though in some relationships it worked differently, i tried things which don't go exactly step 1-4 before went to step 5; like I did step 1-2, then step 5, after that step 3-4, and yes i even tried with step 5 first, and did all step 1-4. yea it's just case by case basis I believe, but one thing I truly agree with TS is there is no need of confessing *no matter whether you go for a western or asian preference girl* a simple yet meaningful kiss is just the way you two state you are willing to go further together.
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Hey guys,
Had read up and do all 5 steps but unfortunately at that time I confessed to her and it turn out badly and it took me almost a year to bring back the coldness after the narrow line that has been built after the confession (failed big time) as at that time she said that she is not ready for commitment and also she is chasing for another guys.
So 2 years has gone and we still friend and I would like to try it again as I’m still interested in her, will do all the 5 step again but in very slow mood to avoid any unforeseen circumstances.
My questions are:
To show that I’m always thinking of her, should I gave to her a bouquet as I will be on outstation for couple of weeks starting next week and planning to get it delivered to her office, is it ok?
Should I wait for the response after give the flower to her? Since she like flowers very much
Is it okay, if I’m occasionally texting her e.g., wish her good morning and stuff
We already planned and had bought ticket to watch live performance (musical) with couple of friends, so should I send the flower already I’m afraid of the she will bail out, fyi she already knew that I like her (referring to the previous event of `confession' which I regret it now
Thanks
yup unfortunately you already confessed. but it's okay, i think you can occasionally texting her, tried some simple stuff (eg good morning and stuff), and tried more deep stuff, maybe you can ask her friend what she is up to, says good luck for any task/congrats for achievement she has just made, yes you can send flower when you're outstation, don't overdo anyway, just do enough and wait I suppose, you've done enough, don't show you're desperately trying. i think if you overdo, if you can get together at last with her but it won't go well.Had read up and do all 5 steps but unfortunately at that time I confessed to her and it turn out badly and it took me almost a year to bring back the coldness after the narrow line that has been built after the confession (failed big time) as at that time she said that she is not ready for commitment and also she is chasing for another guys.
So 2 years has gone and we still friend and I would like to try it again as I’m still interested in her, will do all the 5 step again but in very slow mood to avoid any unforeseen circumstances.
My questions are:
To show that I’m always thinking of her, should I gave to her a bouquet as I will be on outstation for couple of weeks starting next week and planning to get it delivered to her office, is it ok?
Should I wait for the response after give the flower to her? Since she like flowers very much
Is it okay, if I’m occasionally texting her e.g., wish her good morning and stuff
We already planned and had bought ticket to watch live performance (musical) with couple of friends, so should I send the flower already I’m afraid of the she will bail out, fyi she already knew that I like her (referring to the previous event of `confession' which I regret it now
Thanks
well i did experience this before, that confessing and that coldness in the beginning
and it took 1 year when she finally "say yes". so there is no game over for your case for now, as I said earlier it's really case by case basis, it's you who know exact conditions between both of you.
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