but he is already filing for divorce. in process already. so macam mana?

filling means not yet divorce.

married man... he must be 30+ years old already.

unless he is very handsome and got characteristic that attracted her, if not just normal friend.

oic.

so basically,
when the girl askes the boy,
"do you have a gf?"

the boy should answer,
"tarak gf. bcos sudah married. tapi sekarang tengah divorce. "

should answer like that, yes?

married but divorced cannot have gf mer?

If she do, may not be a bad thing too.

I think she deserved someone that is better. Me , i am lousy.

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Added on September 30, 2009, 4:59 pmi am 26 only. I am not handsome, neither good charisma.

That is why i test it with the 5 ways. I wan to know if is normal fren or otherwise.

This post has been edited by lunar sea: Sep 30 2009, 04:59 PM

if you like her, got some feelings for her.

then keep doing THE FIVE.

u happy, she happy, right?

haha. it depends la. lambat laun orang pun tau punye!

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Added on September 30, 2009, 5:07 pmlater on u also will tell her wat?

or u wait untill she is urs onli u tell her?

if she can accept and family accpet, congrats to u.

This post has been edited by Paulina: Sep 30 2009, 05:07 PM

Maybe this is the way. I cant ignore out of suddent right ?

What do you talk about on your dates? Are you at the stage when you're sharing intimate details of your life?

If you are, and you purposely leave out the fact that you're married with children and going through a divorce, you're being dishonest with her. Dishonesty doesn't just mean lying, it also means not telling the truth.

At some point, you'll have to tell her. And it has to be you that tells her. If she finds out from somewhere else, she may feel that you've been lying to her. And she'll probably be right.

Yes, i will tell her but only when the right time comes. Meaning when i found out that she is ready to give me a chance.

The reason i choose now to tell her now is because i am afraid i would lost the chance to be with her.

I think the chances that they will accept me will be very very low. No parent like their precious daugther to be with an ex-con.

anyway, hope u success.

We are long lost coursemate , so we talked about those days back in Uni. We talked anything inlcuding her family members. I keep asking and she keep answering.

I think to certain degree, yes, i tried to aviod it. But at 1st impression , she already thinks that i am single. I think this is the reason she din ask about my past.

I am still not sure whether she is interested in me. Sometime i felt yes, sometimes i dont.

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Added on September 30, 2009, 5:21 pmthanks. actually i felt uneasy for not telling her my maritul status. its been uneasy for me since i met her.

This post has been edited by lunar sea: Sep 30 2009, 05:21 PM

Are you insane? Why do you call yourself an ex-con? Did you cheat people's money or lie to them to manipulate them? If you did, then go diving in Sungai Rajang.

There's nothing wrong with your current status as long as you're not behaving like a worm.

You're fresh out of a ridiculously insane relationship, you're busy settling a divorce, you have a child's future to take care of, you have work responsibilities, you have a lot of things to handle at the same time.

After you've handled all of this you would probably look back on these trying times with pride. But for now, it is okay to take things a day at a time.

If you want the relationship to be casual then keep it casual and make that known. Indicate it to her in some form or way.

Ah poon you so nice.

Whoa....thumbs up for this post . Sadly, some guys just don't know how to test the waters first.

Yeah, i probably knew why would i behave like a a worm. I lost self confidence.

Ex-con, maybe i felt if i can start afresh. Not sure.

Its been a week since i met up with her. I din contact her, neither she. I start to doubt, i am think too much. She ain't into me.

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Added on October 2, 2009, 10:07 amwho ? me ? u ? poon ?

This post has been edited by lunar sea: Oct 2 2009, 10:07 AM

now even the process also have formula haha nice one!

Consequences, consequences. You can handle them, you can do anything you want to.

Choose.

been doing no.1 for a long time.
give eye contact. then just look away.
when she pass me i dont give eye contact.
then a few days/weeks.
she started looking at me.
is like started to take interests in me.

i can't do 2nd. i sux at jokes.

i could do steps 1-3 ^^.. 4 and 5 = epic phail..

people who suck at jokes shouldnt attempt to do any. really. just be nice.

This post has been edited by teongpeng: Oct 3 2009, 03:30 AM