let me try 1st.so far im done with step 1-3.gonna proceed to another step

Oh just an update about my case, it was a failure and I have moved on.

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you really follow this step?

yeah .. can also. But that is just a start....if she agrees that is.
Comm is an art... and it does takes time. getting to know anyone I mean

well known TS

No need to make any confession, I've been in 3 relationships and never even confess once. Just go with the flow, if she really like u it will be a piece of cake.

Nope, but used it as a guideline haha...

BUMPing this classic

Read all 74 pages in a day

Done all 5, I guess the next step is to carry no. 4 further gradually, try to hold her hand and gauge her reaction

good for you. Now go get a life.
74 pages in a day . geez

Well, I read with music accompanying me, it's a breeze

This deserves a sticky.

may i know confession about feelings? or asked to be together?.. i liked the 5 steps that you mentioned.. i did 1 2 3 and 5.. step 4 is just very minimal... However sometimes i feel confession about your feelings is a need.. sometimes girls wont know what u r thinking and same to guys also dunno what they are thinking...

So 1 day.. i went to confess about my feelings.... she was surprised.. she say she didnt notice cause she tot i treated all the girls this way.. and yea i got to know what she is thinking.. she said she was scared because she just broke up and the past relationship was a bad 1. We both admitted that we had feelings for each other.. But currently i don't really know what our relationship consider as? Could anyone give some comment? haha

No confession is needed if you know how she feels. If you don't know how she feels, then that means you don't know her. Body language does 70% of the talking.

That's because you didn't do it enough.

The whole point of THE FIVE is to show that you're interested in her. You don't need to say it. You shouldn't say it, because actions speak louder and are a lot more convincing than words.

But first of all, you should never be afraid of admitting that you're interested in her in the first place. The reason why I keep telling people not to confess is that it makes you afraid to reveal your own feelings - afraid that the girl you like will know that you like her. Which never works.

If she thought that the way you treat her is the same way you treat every girl, I can only conclude that you didn't do enough of THE FIVE. It may be because you were still too afraid to let her know that you like her. You can't be afraid. If you like a girl, you must let her know immediately.

You just shouldn't say it.

Is Noob13 wierd?

Over-analysiing. Best practice is always go au natural.

thanks for your reply.. maybe each of us are different.. i feel there is a need to tell her.. and now i felt that we are closer..

and is she say she knows but just that she is not sure only.. so yea..

This post has been edited by playoff90: Nov 23 2012, 03:22 PM

I find there's more of an assumption and self-contradiction thing rather than an analysis thing. He's not very analytical.

This post has been edited by s2peMocls: Nov 23 2012, 03:33 PM

If you have been rejected often, what will you do?
You tend to be shy and afraid to admit anything

My first gf was in natural way. No confession.
We both sort of confess at almost same time

P/S: Nice reading TS tips. 5 steps...
Wish me success then in the steps taken. Some gals are introvert, need more actions from guys

Why? Like I said in the first post, liking another person is a small thing. You're not in love with her. You're not asking her to marry you. You have not found The One. You just like her. It's not a big deal at all - just like it's not a big deal to show it to her, and it's not a big deal if she rejects you. You really really don't have to be afraid.