Fun and exited when using these steps

damn.. you are genius.

Well, maybe you can try grazing the back of your hand to her hand and see how she responds. If she retracts or folds her hands, means the line is not clear yet but if she leaves it as it is and maybe you can go for more daring action which is hold her hand. Your call.

This post has been edited by dixonteoh: May 10 2011, 06:03 PM

Ah..Noted..I'll try this the next time we go out..For now, I still want to know her more in person.talk about her life and mine..But since her bday's coming soon, will do something special I suppose..

Well, yea sure you're supposed to get to know her more before the next level but becareful with what you ask. There's a risk that she'll feel you're intruding to her personal things. Remember the borderline~ Maybe you can plan her birthday? I organized the whole thing for the girl i like last year and it's a success event BUT currently still courting her... recently just quit smoking bcoz she hates it.. well, half is bcoz of her and another half is for myself.. just get more motivation been 2weeks without smoke now...

Guys remember this is a guide to let her know your "INTERESTED" in her without confessing. It aint a guide for getting a girl

Good luck to you and me. She probably knew hw i felt for her and all so next step shud be coming up soon yo

loved this!

i did all 5 without realizing thrs this tread..now, she showed all signs..plus taking pics together, treat me dinner, said i shud stop fetching her n its her turn to fetch me out, feed me scoops of ice cream and rice when we r at dinner..after 4months knowing her, i decided to confess..very simple with no presents..compliment her character, then say i like u..and she goes~~~ im scared, u made me feel so scared..and then i tink i automatically built a narrow line btw us alrdy..i tink guys shud confess in the end, just lik the bf proposing to their gf for marriage, but confessing to a fren is diff from confessing to a gf..dun do it face to face, cos certain gals are too afraid to accept, or having the pressure on them at tht moment, they reject..do somthing lik..giv her a photo frame with her pic inside and a small note telling her how u feel..anyway, wat u tink i can do now? =.=!

This post has been edited by pc123: May 14 2011, 07:18 PM

This article tells you not to confess. You confessed, and you had a bad outcome. And your conclusion is, guys should still confess?

yeah..so f***ed..wat can i do now? but anyway, i just think tht some gals dont take confessions face to face..some which r mor open minded will take it..perhaps we shud better understand the person 1st b4 jumpin into confession..my ex reply my confession right away..this one em em em..

anyway, tell me ur theory..wats after the 5 steps? after shes so close to u n share her secrets,take u to parties,take u to shopping, feed u food lik gf bf does..bt theres still no relationship goin on..wats nex?

What's next is that you should have made a more forceful move. Hold her hand, put your arm around her waist, maybe even steal a kiss. She was probably waiting for it. She probably thought you were a cool and mature guy, not a lovesick teenager who needs to confess - and then you proved her wrong.

I demand this thread to be pinned

Mods pin this pls

This would take the biggest balls to do .Rejection might cause me to faint

man..u serious? i never did tht b4 to any gals i knew..im a young adult alrdy, stil studying and almost to working BUT i nvr ever did that unless after we bcam partners..this is mor to molest dude..the risks..hell, any1 of u did this b4?

I have, and it worked.

What's so hard to understand? Girls get crazy about guys too. Girls fantasize about guys too. Girls get horny about guys too. If she really liked you (and it sounds like she did), she was probably aching inside for your kiss. Every time you brushed against her, she probably got goosebumps. Girls are like that also laa. Stop treating them like fragile little flowers. They're human, just like you.

er, not all girls are tht open minded..talking bout gals with high education that never been into any relationships b4..weird to see peep show u signs but reject u..anyway gud advice..i'll try it wit other gals..

Yes this is true...girls aren't fragile flowers they want your kiss, they crave it as much as you do. They feel as much as pleasure as you when you hold them in your arms and embrace them. They want you to hold them tight and not let go.

some girls are a bit more open, so 1-5 might be normal to them, especially more mature girls (with a mindset of 21 and above...)

best is to try using TIME and wait for the magic to happen. like TS said, if it is meant to be, you wont need to confess, it will happen.

if the girl is not interested, eventually she will move on and so should you

if the girl had known you and go out on a date with you...as in she actually dress and act like shes on a date...its the guy's farkin responsibility to touch her. If you dont do that you're a dissapointment.