Agreed. If there is your "be yourself" point then what about the others? The others is about changing, not being yourself. All you gotta do is be the best you can be. basically, enhance who you are, not who you are trying to be.

honestly if I see a shy guy approaching me I'd still be flattered, so long as his intentions are pure. Have the guts, approach the girl. If she likes talking to you you'll know. If not, you'll get it too. It's about guts. After approaching her and greeting her, almost everything will flow naturally. Gd luck

This post has been edited by Jamien: Jul 25 2009, 11:47 PM

I think there's a point you are missing. for starters, you are communicating with written words. So your words have to be presented in a way that people will want to read it, is quick to understand and is willing to accept.

The way you frame and present your points is very important as it relates to how people interpret it. I would know. I'm a journalism graduate.

Also, we do not have anything to gain by opposing your ideals or criticizing your work. When we say it's over simplified or too generalized, we mean it as a fact.

You've written "face the truth". Now it's time you face the truth. Your work is still flawed. Reality is harsh man.

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Added on July 26, 2009, 2:08 pm of course not. I've already stressed that in his other thread. Or maybe ezra is secretly a woman?

This post has been edited by Jamien: Jul 26 2009, 02:08 PM

Oh, so he's one of the men still trying to figure women out? Lol it'll never work. Reason being that women and men are different. You don't have to understand women to please women and attract women.

So this is a case of the blind trying to lead the blind. Or maybe ezra is imagining himself as a woman and what kinda approach men take with him will make him say yes?

Fine. I just feel it's silly that he doesn't realize that he's also blind as well. Men can't understand women anymore than women can understand men. A good man is not a man who thinks he knows everything about women, but a man who treats women well with all the knowledge he does know about them.