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I do drool at OLs

How come?

Hi

Appearance always tells different story than what she is?

Obviously i know who you are, based from your posts in the German thread

300 is win

What are the common hobbies/ interests of girls?

I have asked and went out with them for 4 times at the moment...

Forgive me if i seen as stereotyping, but from my experiences......

These are the common traits that they all share :

- Music (they like to listen songs, but i don't)

- Paparazzi (E-news, those stuffs)

- Fashion

- Talk about love

I have no interest in all of these

Therefore, in your opinion, do you believe girls do have common interests like i mentioned above?

I see, i did thought of that...

But then, the question, do you think it is worthwhile for a person to change, most of his persona, just to acclimatise with girls?

I see...

Lol, i did thought of that...

But for now, i have no expectation from girls...

As long as there is efficacy in our social link and at least, something common........well, there is a seal...

Oh well, hopefully yeah....

But i ask you, will you change your likings (interests and hobbies), just to be with the girl?

For now, there is nothing that impels me to learn something new...

I kinda think, people should know the real me, instead of hoping that i change much of myself, just to suit them, i think it is too fake and not to mention, tiring...

Learn a thing or two, no problem man

Ask me to change myself like my friends, sorry

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Added on June 27, 2009, 3:10 pmI did try, but frankly, she has no interest in those stuffs....

I try to learn a thing or two, but then......nothing conclusive...

Likewise, most guys play online games and PC games, but i don't

This also created a large gap of myself with my male friends

This post has been edited by Kampung2005: Jun 27 2009, 03:10 PM

One thing i have to admit, back in secondary school (i had crushes before form 3)

I tried to learn their likings and even try to be them, but it was so tiring and obviously do not work at all

Giving a choice, i may start with clean sheet of paper

This is something that i don't like to see it happen...

Look, i went out with girls

But, roughly half a month ahead, i tried to plan everything so that she won't feel bored...

Still, the result is at best, lukewarm

I really think too much, yeah...

In the past, i thought of girl's religion, education, upbringing, activity and even think what happened if become her partner, something like that...

People ask me to go out more and try to talk with people...

I do, but the problem is always the conflicting topics

Yes, out of 4 outings, 3 of them were planned for quite a while

Except one outing, which was suggested just hours before we supposed to go for makan

I don't know that many girls to realise that part

That one not the major issue

The problem, is how to make the girl, will not hesitate for a second outing