It's not fair to say that girls nowadays only go after rich guys... Well there are some who are like that but I don't think they are the majority. If you come across one or 2, well it could be the gal... But if you come across many many times, hmm I think you should start considering about yourself before you put the blame to gals...

Attitude is one very important quality that gals look for. From your posts, I get the feeling that you're not a very optimistic person (ok just my personal feel only lah, pls don't get offended k). You have a negative view of things and you assume most gals are after rich guys just because of your own experience. Have you tried to look back at yourself if you were carrying the right attitude? Negativity always turns ppl away.

Anyway you're only form 5 and still young. You've got lots more to learn in terms of sociality and how to treat opposite sex with respect. When you're few years older, I'm sure you'll be able to handle BGR better. Don't get so caught up with gals being more attracted to other guys at this time.

All the best =)

Why do you think that going after personality is crap? Well of course first impression is rather important and this applies to both sexes... When starngers first meet, they dunno about each other and hence they rely alot on first impression. By that I do not mean all gals will necessarily be attracted to guys who wears branded stuffs and drives exp cars. I mean things like proper dressing and ettiquette.

If a guy is all about money and looks only, the gal won't stay by his side for long. The relationship won't last. Coz he got no "substance"... And seriously, why ppl like to assume the negative just because they meet some who are like that?