When my gf and i shop, or eat, we go dutch, and pay for ourselves because we're still both students and simply cannot afford to pay for both of us. it is more reasonable that both of us invest the same in the relationship. that said, i do fork out extra cash for special occasions and the odd surprises.

THIS is maturity

your stage is pure bimbo golddigger. i'd hardly call it maturity

I think these kind of girls will only after rich and old guys.

he must be mature = mostly maturity come with age.

able to fullfill her every needs and wants = he has money. Sugar daddy??? mostly old folks have a lot of money.

almost perfect personality = this phrase...I think someone who is patient enough to be able to stand her every whims. Older guys again..

This thing kind of remind me a story. My father is a doctor. Someone who has money, mature and good personality..a perfect old man. Once upon a time, a nurse (young and mature girl) had fall in love with my father, she tried to seduce him to become the his second wife. Not only she failed, my father being a very insensitive man told this to my mother and to his family.. and all of us had a good laugh.

Moral of the story.. dont try to seduce my father.. he is old. he has white hair. even his janggut and misai.. what about him so attrative???

In my case is slightly different. When i ask my ex for an outing I'll pay for her expenses. If she's the one who ask me out then the bill is divided 50/50 But of course occasionally I'll still be paying for everything

woo.. what a mentality.. minah pisau cukur nie

Me and my bf are on different cases, we wud share our expenses. If last month heis short, i cover for him, if next month i am short, he will cover for me.

We are committed to share our financialbility and even most of our bills. I may not pay exact 50%, but he knows i will pay more when he needs them. We are more in a committed relationship were we know our bounderies, what we want and where we are

in your case, like baronic said, is pure gold digger and also immature and will destined to be spend her life alone.

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Added on June 10, 2009, 8:59 amur father was wise to tell your mother, and it is insensitive IF you all laugh at her with her acknowledgement

This post has been edited by kanzakicyn: Jun 10 2009, 08:59 AM

+9,999!

Totally agreed, bro!

This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 10 2009, 09:16 AM

uh no. girls look for that anyway, mature or materialistic or just plain dreamy.

No matter what, a male should be striving for success, in-turn he becomes mature and responsible. Unless you are those 'mama's boy' or 'lazy bums' you wouldnt need not worry about when she is/becomes mature. Ask yourself, are you a boy or a man?

Maturity your talking about is when she wants to start a family. Are you man enough for her? Father her children. This usually happens when, her biological clock is counting down or she starts comparing herself to her friends.

There is another type of maturity depending on her lifestyle. If she is LV and Gucci person, then she needs a guy that can give her that. If she pays it herself... means she dont believe you can provide for her - BOY!.

According to ts statement, i dont really see the mature immature thing,
i oni see materialistic.
Things u say like gals wan big mansion or small house, gals pay for themself and gals choose financially stable guy has nth to do with maturity, that oni depends on individual.
Gals pay for ownself got nth wrong, u expect a gal born and do nth until he marry a rich guy then break both of her leg and enjoy life?
U truly never seen a gal chose financially unstable guy as husband/bf?
That can be serve as a requirement on this society, however it is not a must or law that everyone have to follow.

what is maturity if you can't handle immaturity lulz

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Jun 10 2009, 09:57 AM

mature is when both partners can coorperate to handle both their expenses together

what kind of nonsense that a man must pay everything for the girl ?


a girl that only wants a man that makes good money to pay for her expenses will always be dissapointed
becoz her attitude will make the man leave her eventually

Well it still makes sense if you're talking about this some 40-50 years ago.

In today's modern society, it's a whole different story.

this kind of give-you-two-choice-to-choose situation doesn't happen everyday....

yes girls are materialistic(well, not just girls, we all are, don't tell me your not cuz if you tell me your not materialistic, your dame fake to me, no offence), but can you judge their maturity just as simple by that? dude ! COME ON !

woman selecting her another half doesn't just base on feeling, there are a lot of factor which might need to be put into consideration... look's, background, economical stable, how he think personally, how he treat her etc etc... and i read some report say's that our body smell also one of the factor too !!!

so if a girl choose a BF by above requirement , will she be classify as un-mature?

its not a new level of maturity
its a new prerequisite for the particular gal, which is not a bad thing

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Added on June 10, 2009, 10:12 amobvioulsy she deserves sumwan more mature :

This post has been edited by aichiban: Jun 10 2009, 10:12 AM

its not only the women's fault
its also the men's fault coz they are brainwashed to think that way

just grow a bit older n date longer, no man can tolerate this kind of abuse eventually

Somehow, I just got a Deja Vu.

Apparently, I just have a feeling this is going to be another "guys right/gals right" kinda thread...

When we talks about maturity, it will always come down to a very basic question:

How does a person handles a situation, especially in a tight situation. Will you use your logical thinking and reasoning when making a decision or handlng the situation?

In general, think of it this way. Ask yourself a question first.

How matured are you? Do not judge the maturity of other people at the first place when you yourself is not matured enough.

Like what people always says:

"Don't take care of other people when you can't even take care of yourself".



This post has been edited by geekster129: Jun 10 2009, 10:23 AM

We didnt laugh at her and certainly not with her acknowledgment.. We laugh because of the situation. All of us cannot understand why a young woman could ever want a father of 4 children. He is not handsome, he has family, he has white hair. Well, he has money but it's come with extend family. And she the one who did the seduction. All of us, including our mother, could never expected this to happen.

My father told my mother because he was full of himself. Well, he was joking about himself, somehow the story come out, so we kinda laugh because he think himself still attractive even to young women.

Then again, maybe this is also consider as maturity. My father is a family man, hardworking, loves his children, and responsible. She wanted to build a family, so its only natural she wanted my father to be her husband, even if she had to be the second wife. Quite logical. I think.

A person's expectations change as they age, it's a fact. In college, which girl or guy wouldn't want to go out with the hottest person on campus given the chance? Later in life, your priorities change. Looks become less important and you take into consideration other factors like financial security. Without going into too much detail all girls/women look for the same thing; someone that can take care of them. Gold Diggers look for wealthy men who "can take care of them". More grounded women look for stable men "who can take care of them". If you are a manic depressive kid stuck in a man's body, with a dead end job, you can forget about getting hitched.

$$$ solved everything!

i know you'll sure say this when i see your name appeared in this thread.

Move on, brother, don't keep holding the grudge~!

Don't judge all gals for death penalty, you only had 1 experience and you're not qualified yet.

Put your comment about gals at your siggy is more than enough, please don't spread the same comment and repeat again and again in every relevant topics. RESPECT the gals out there, who have never cheated you, please.