hey you guys shouldn't talk about someone else so openly la. why all not yet sleep de?

defamation works in a way that the names need not be mentioned but everyone who reads it knows who you're talking about. Seriously, don't you think speaking like that will hurt someone. Don't la.

Your discussion is hurtful for the party whom you are talking about. sorry to be harsh. But human emotions are so hard to fully understand and gauge. You're not helping her move on. You're just giving her a world of hurt. Please don't.

oh please please don't feel too bad. I just sorta don't feel good to discuss something so delicate so openly like this. Maybe I said it too strongly. Sorry k yeelin?

=.=" chicks. It's not funny.

lol, we have a new ken in the forum. O.o I've been away too long

siilver i didn't mean to offend you. I just hoped you could have discussed it more privately. There are people who know about it, other than the 2 of you. As for me, I choose not to pry. Again, if it offends you, I'm sorry. I'm just trying to be delicate to both sides.

Lol chickie always skips off to WTF section so he surely knows. Eh chicks I'm thinking of weekend outing but wif less walking. Mahu? I just recovered and not fully but wanna go out

lol i wanna go outing but no walking wor. i get tired easily nowadays.

siilver can we just drop it. Really, please. Straight to the point. I was just asking if we can drop the subject.

eh what are you going to do in penang alone? bring back tambun biscuits!!

wah... chicks inviting me. Honestly i want to come but as i say, not full recovery. tak boleh jalan lama. >"< I will burden you and your journey will not be smooth. sigh....

lol really? I don't do well under the sun and I can't walk for more than 15 minutes nowadays without stopping wor. ~.~ 3 weeks of illness can take away your stamina.

I didn't say she wasn't at fault. I am not asking you to drop it because I support her. I just think it is a sensitive issue since you both frequent this area and a lot of members know you both.

And you guys have got problems you haven't thrashed out yet. If you're so bothered and so angry with her, go talk it over with her. Go scream indignation at her. DO SOMETHING. You guys ended it very badly. And it's very bad for both your emotional state. Talk it over and end it properly. Scold her for things she ever did wrong to you. And you listen to all the things she felt hurt about. Then you can both properly move on.

er... I like traveling. seeing places is nice.

wow. But 1 day of walking I really can't tahan wor. this weekend some more. ~.~ Penang's scorching hot... we'll be like eggs on a frying pan. how to compromise?

you also like traveling?

If you've been with her you know that she's very sensitive. She blames herself A LOT for it. She cries and she needs a shoulder to lean on. And I'm pretty sure she didn't tell EVERYONE. You know how words of mouth can spread. Good things spread but bad things tend to spread like wild fire.

Can't you just talk to her once more and listen to what she has to say? She has been trying to move on but I feel she still has so much to say to you. The choice is yours. If cutting her away is what you have decided to do then do it thoroughly and clearly after she has said her piece. Let her know why after you've listened to her reasons. She's in pain la bryan. I empathize with her. I'm not saying I did bad things in relationships before but everyone here has been in a broken relationship and I know how much it hurts. And just for the record, what she said didn't differ at all from what you just typed. She wasn't embellishing. give her a chance to explain herself if you can.

Yes every action has its consequence. But for crimes you get to give a statement before going to jail. She just really wants to give you her reasons and thrash out her guilt. Can you at least try to give her that? If not then at least you tried.

I empathize her because she's in pain. Not anything else. If you choose to share I would be more than willing. Honestly if I'm in your shoe I wouldn't know how to handle it. You're in pain too. I would sympathize you since i don't know how it feels but i'm afraid it will offend you. Really bad things happened and situations got really bad cause of some really badly made decisions. Nothing happens on its own. Perhaps you had a contributing factor too. Please just listen. She's not begging for second chances. She just wants to tell you stuff. Like I say, the choice is yours.

I'm sorry for being this way but I just don't like seeing my friends in pain.

yo guys. Hi chicks hi ken. hi choc. This is now officially the "i can't sleep" gang~

Lol no kidding. ~.~ It's the holidays again and I'm mildly insomniac. How come you can't get to bed dear?

Hi babe~ *hugs!* how's my special girl today?

wor penang trip. It's a small island. Hard to get lost la chicks

The corner shop for ho chian!!! It's a must eat!!

Wor you're from Penang. Is the weather still scorching hot?

Wow... Who calls you every night.

Awww.... *hugs...* Don't worry everything will be alright. It will always be. You have your family and friends. Now is the perfect time to take advantage of that fact my dear.

Lol I super agree. ~.~ My dad brought us to a place in Penang which was famous 10 years ago for nasi kandar. We went back. ownership got switched to the son of the actual owner. And after tasting it, I'd rather eat nasi kandar in SS2.