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post Jun 2 2009, 12:27 PM, updated 17y ago

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For past few months my sister in love with such a bad guy. I claim he's bad bcoz so many people say so, and bcoz of his rudeness and playboy type. Our parent also really hate that guy bcoz he not even has amount of respect. But still my sister cannot leave him and still sort of flirting with him, WTF!!. Even my mom said if she choose to marry that guy don't bother to come home. sweat.gif . But my sister refuse to leave him bcoz can't forget him.

Since that, my dad try to find supernatural solution and some religious type man claim my sister had drink something that that guy give her. And need to take a flower bath, rclxub.gif
I hesitate to believe, bcoz i'm not the person who easy believe in supernatural treatment. If this not work, what other possible solution for this problem?
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post Jun 2 2009, 12:43 PM

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What i point out here is sometimes my sister want to leave him and even promise to my parents to leave him but then few days later they're together again, just like something is not right. Even we told her that guy date other girl she stunned and kinda angry too but few days later nothing happened, still together and 'mesra2' like b4. That's why my parent decide for supernatural solution. sweat.gif

I wan to report to the law enforcement but what he will be charge for?


Added on June 2, 2009, 12:45 pm
QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jun 2 2009, 12:30 PM)
Your sister probably is addicted to him because of his good sex skills on the bed, floor, kitchen, car, park, toilet, etc.

as for looking for supernatural stuffs, you can find some medium to help you. Normally this medium need to ejaculate their supernatural seeds into her body to help protect her from bad omen. Yea.
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My god..... a girl like u say something like this?? laugh.gif


Added on June 2, 2009, 12:47 pm
QUOTE(exsea @ Jun 2 2009, 12:31 PM)
if everything has already been said, what else do you want to be done?

it is her life. you and your parents have already advised her, but she doesnt listen, just leave it.
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We not gonna give up, it's family u know...... If ur sister in same situation u will not give up too rite?

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post Jun 2 2009, 01:07 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jun 2 2009, 01:00 PM)
let her go la... she's not small anymore
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We not gonna let her go into Devil's Trap. I think that guy still not take my sis "V" yet, if so, he already leave her, like common playboy suppose to do. I think that guy kept my sis for "love" but bang other girls. Such a moron mad.gif I plan to kick his a#$ someday but he's really a mascular person, plus got some gang. Crap.

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post Jun 2 2009, 01:13 PM

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QUOTE(ac_N1 @ Jun 2 2009, 01:10 PM)
That's only your assumption. And you are getting angry at your own imaginary world.
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Yeap, assumption that got proof, bcoz i already contact those girls he use to date. They're not bond with him unlike my sis.
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post Jun 2 2009, 01:25 PM

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QUOTE(Miyako @ Jun 2 2009, 01:15 PM)
She has the rights to choose who she wants to be with. If he's bad, she will gain experience and learn from it. Everyone has their bad days and will only learn after they've experience it. As you can see, there's no use advising your sister as she would not listen. Just keep an eye on her and be cautious.
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again, i'm not gonna let that happen, would u dare ur family especially ur sister which is more vulnerable falls to high chance that will make her hurt? or worse get into troubles? Would u? What if someone sister fall in love with criminals? "Just let her go" not making any sense nod.gif


Added on June 2, 2009, 1:30 pm
QUOTE(deeplyheartbroken @ Jun 2 2009, 01:22 PM)
Define how bad first...
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He's a playboy, gang member, not respect elders and blackmail type. He even send sms to my other sister that he will do something bad to my sis if we try to seperate them. Too bad that sms no longer save in the phone. sweat.gif

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post Jun 2 2009, 01:43 PM

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QUOTE(Miyako @ Jun 2 2009, 01:32 PM)
Then you should show the sms to your sister together with any other proof and hope that your sis would realise what kind of guy is he.
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already proof of that guy mesra2 with someone else with pic and testimonial, but as i told, she kinda stunned and bit of angry and seem like to break up with him, but few days later she keep date with him like nothing happen. It happened 3 times like that already that make us felt weird and try supernatural solution instead.

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post Jun 2 2009, 01:52 PM

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QUOTE(Miyako @ Jun 2 2009, 01:48 PM)
Ok..I think I know why. She might get angry at that moment, but after he sweet talk to her her heart become soft again and accept him back.
Maybe you could try introducing another guy to her..then she might compare both of them and realise how bad is he treating her. She just want someone to care for her..so try to find other thing/ or someone else to replace him.
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got candidates? whistling.gif
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post Jun 2 2009, 02:04 PM

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QUOTE(Baronic @ Jun 2 2009, 02:00 PM)
i'm bloody surprised noone bothered to ask this....

how old is your sister dude.....
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21.... Err why?
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post Jun 2 2009, 02:44 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jun 2 2009, 02:23 PM)
Muscular? wow  wub.gif  I also like muscular men like darklight79 hehehehe

Your sister knows what she's doing la. She needs to get screwed then only realise her mistake.

Like a kid, who is stubborn and dont listen to people not to touch a hot kettle. Once kena, forever smart already.
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aiyooo what u mean by "kena"?? I don't want my sis to 'kena' whatever he give her. Plus a gang member who 'paw paw' college freshies? Hell no!!

Since when mascular guy get interest with girls? i bet u the one who flirting around them huh? laugh.gif

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post Jun 2 2009, 03:09 PM

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Well.... if that supernatural things is true, she maybe can forget him. If not, i will make that guy go to jail or something like that. yawn.gif
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post Jun 2 2009, 03:58 PM

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U don't understand do u? If she gonna marry that guy she must got permission from my father as a guardian otherwise she will marry in thailand which is illegal. She can't forget him bcoz that guy always sweet talk with her or whatsoever give that supernatural drink(if it's true) The things can do are

1) make that guy forget her by bribing him, (which a gang member like to) so my sis will no longer get a sweet talks.

2) set up a trap which make him go to jail

3) find other good guy for my sister, which the only suggestion that useful since i open this topic.
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post Jun 2 2009, 04:19 PM

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QUOTE(Ignoramus @ Jun 2 2009, 04:17 PM)
Pay a group of rempits to kau tim him. j/king.

Just be sure to be there when your sis finally realise she was wrong.
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i'm afraid my mom will halau her b4 that happened cry.gif
Recently my mom already not talk to her anymore and feel like u know... not treat her like her child sweat.gif
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post Jun 2 2009, 05:23 PM

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Haiiiihhh the problem is we're muslims, suppose to get married in proper way, that's why my parents don't 'restu' her to in love with him thus get married. U want our family get 'conteng arang' one?? doh.gif

U guys still don't understand the situation. Forgot to tell u that guy not muslim. It's fine for us if he's a good guy no matter his race or religion but not with SAMSENG..... U know what, i think that guy is a future Ah Long. mad.gif


Added on June 2, 2009, 5:26 pm
QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jun 2 2009, 05:13 PM)
Oh, that isn't a bad idea actually.

I even recommended him to look for a medium to excrete his spiritual sperms into her to ward off all evil.  wink.gif
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lolzzz what the hell..... if to my gf can lorr do this one brows.gif

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post Jun 2 2009, 05:35 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jun 2 2009, 05:27 PM)
So you're a racist now, izzit?

Why don't you tell us exactly what is wrong with this guy?
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we accept her if fall in love with other race, we not racist are we? We even encourage her to find someone else if she interest with non-malay guy, but not this one. This one is samseng lorrr. Can u believe he even talk trash to my mom and threatening my older sis? People around college already claim that he's playboy and ugut2 gang for money among college freshies. My older sis already take a pic of him hugging and kissing with other girls and show to her but still she can't forget him. What the hell is this mess?
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post Jun 2 2009, 05:50 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jun 2 2009, 05:40 PM)
So many people have told you already that she's an adult, she has the right to decide her own life. I'd tell you that there's nothing you can do except support her no matter what she decides...

...but you're obviously not listening.

So I have only one last thing to say to you.

"Jampi"??

Oi, you ni Melayu zaman mana? Ini abad ke-21 lah, you percaya lagi benda-benda karut macam ni? Tak pergi sekolah ke??
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oii i kata kurang percaya takde la kata tak percaya langsung..... doh.gif
u not believe jin and devil? laugh.gif

the religous man(ustaz) said my sis had drink some kuil water in batu cave. hmm.gif It might be true, coz that samseng guy wear a curious ring with suspicious symbol.
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post Jun 2 2009, 06:08 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jun 2 2009, 05:56 PM)
Where got such thing as "kurang percaya"? Either you believe or you don't. Either you're an educated person or a superstitious idiot.
No I don't. I believe in what I can see with my own two eyes. Those people who believe in "jin and devil"? They're the
ones who kena rogol by bomoh.
Now you're getting racist again.

And if I were you, I'd find a different ustaz. Someone who isn't a superstitious idiot and a racist.
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it's not bomoh lorr doh.gif he's Ustaz like Harun Din one, if u don't believe Harun Din then u no believe in God. I less likely to believe bcoz some case are true some case are not. So cannot 100% believe all the Mystery Nusantara. laugh.gif . Even in hysteria cases most of religous type person claim it's related to both supernatural and psychology. Am i an idiot? I doubt that.

p/s: My god, u not believe in devil? U not muslim are u?


Added on June 2, 2009, 6:09 pm
QUOTE(graceful.enigma @ Jun 2 2009, 05:59 PM)
I LOLed at this thread and the replies. Especially entertaining was the jampi, bomoh and suspicious symbols part ^^

Sorry, I have no good suggestion...infatuation really blinds you.

If can, bribe the gangsta...if he doesn't accept means that he really loves your sis.

Be sure to record the whole process of bribing with your camera phone, so that in case he accepts, you can show it to your sis, thus proving what a jerk he is.
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Thanks for the idea..... notworthy.gif notworthy.gif only someone like u can understand the situation

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post Jun 2 2009, 06:21 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jun 2 2009, 06:17 PM)
Wait a minute... you're equating belief in a man to belief in God?

You think he's bloody Imam Mahadi, izzit?

And you want to lecture me on religion?
I'm afraid you are.

"Kuil water" from Batu Caves jampi your sister? You seriously believe that shit? Is there such thing as "masjid water" from Masjid Jamek that can turn good Buddhist girls into bohsias?

BUKAKLAH MATA woi. Sebab koranglah Melayu tak boleh maju. Your sister's better off with a samseng and along than staying under the same roof as you.
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what's wrong with u man?? It's depend on that particular person to believe what he/she want, in fact we muslim got faith. If u questioning me.... well..... U judge yourself. Mod please band this guy from my topic since he questioning my religous faith.

No offense for those who non muslim, we muslims are prevented to drink any kind of holy water from other religion sacred place(church,kuil,tokong). That's what i know.

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