For past few months my sister in love with such a bad guy. I claim he's bad bcoz so many people say so, and bcoz of his rudeness and playboy type. Our parent also really hate that guy bcoz he not even has amount of respect. But still my sister cannot leave him and still sort of flirting with him, WTF!!. Even my mom said if she choose to marry that guy don't bother to come home. . But my sister refuse to leave him bcoz can't forget him.

Since that, my dad try to find supernatural solution and some religious type man claim my sister had drink something that that guy give her. And need to take a flower bath,
I hesitate to believe, bcoz i'm not the person who easy believe in supernatural treatment. If this not work, what other possible solution for this problem?

C4 the bad guy..

C4 rulez!!!!!!

Your sister probably is addicted to him because of his good sex skills on the bed, floor, kitchen, car, park, toilet, etc.

as for looking for supernatural stuffs, you can find some medium to help you. Normally this medium need to ejaculate their supernatural seeds into her body to help protect her from bad omen. Yea.

if everything has already been said, what else do you want to be done?

it is her life. you and your parents have already advised her, but she doesnt listen, just leave it.

There's nothing you can do babe. Let your sister know honestly what you feel. And tell her whatever she does you are supportive. Well, at least if she gets dumped, she still knows that her family is there for her. Instead of attempting suicide. That's the best you could do anyways.

She should be locked in the kitchen. Thats where your mom and sis should belong.

What i point out here is sometimes my sister want to leave him and even promise to my parents to leave him but then few days later they're together again, just like something is not right. Even we told her that guy date other girl she stunned and kinda angry too but few days later nothing happened, still together and 'mesra2' like b4. That's why my parent decide for supernatural solution.

I wan to report to the law enforcement but what he will be charge for?

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Added on June 2, 2009, 12:45 pmMy god..... a girl like u say something like this??

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Added on June 2, 2009, 12:47 pmWe not gonna give up, it's family u know...... If ur sister in same situation u will not give up too rite?

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 12:47 PM

You think girls don't like sex? They can have multiple orgasm and be very demanding that very few men can satisfy.

Guess you don't know your sista that well (intimately, i mean) hehehehe

yeah i wont give up too but seriously
what can u do?
can u force a horse to drink water?

btw ignore happy4ever. he/she does that all the time

let her go la... she's not small anymore

This post has been edited by happy4ever: Jun 2 2009, 01:00 PM

Why don't you and your parents just let your sister live her life?

hhmmm when a girl really fall for someone they really will love him whole heartedly so the guy just need to say something sweet to just get her back to him..or else the guy must have hold some secret of her's tat cant be reveal so she got no choice..anyway thats just my opinion..

We not gonna let her go into Devil's Trap. I think that guy still not take my sis "V" yet, if so, he already leave her, like common playboy suppose to do. I think that guy kept my sis for "love" but bang other girls. Such a moron I plan to kick his a#$ someday but he's really a mascular person, plus got some gang. Crap.

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 01:09 PM

That's only your assumption. And you are getting angry at your own imaginary world.

Yeap, assumption that got proof, bcoz i already contact those girls he use to date. They're not bond with him unlike my sis.

She has the rights to choose who she wants to be with. If he's bad, she will gain experience and learn from it. Everyone has their bad days and will only learn after they've experience it. As you can see, there's no use advising your sister as she would not listen. Just keep an eye on her and be cautious.

Define how bad first...

again, i'm not gonna let that happen, would u dare ur family especially ur sister which is more vulnerable falls to high chance that will make her hurt? or worse get into troubles? Would u? What if someone sister fall in love with criminals? "Just let her go" not making any sense

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Added on June 2, 2009, 1:30 pmHe's a playboy, gang member, not respect elders and blackmail type. He even send sms to my other sister that he will do something bad to my sis if we try to seperate them. Too bad that sms no longer save in the phone.

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 01:30 PM

I wouldn't want my sis to get hurt but so far, has he done anything that could harm her? Did he put her in danger? Maybe he really likes her that's why he's treating her differently than other girls. And I predict that if your family keep forcing her to stay away from him, she might runaway from home to be with that guy. What you can do now is to give support as a brother and let her know that you would be there for her and that she can tell you anything, no matter what happens.

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Added on June 2, 2009, 1:35 pmThen you should show the sms to your sister together with any other proof and hope that your sis would realise what kind of guy is he.


This post has been edited by Miyako: Jun 2 2009, 01:35 PM

love is blind, when people fall (notice they use the word FALL) in love, theres nothing you can do but brace for the impact of which ever consequences.

already proof of that guy mesra2 with someone else with pic and testimonial, but as i told, she kinda stunned and bit of angry and seem like to break up with him, but few days later she keep date with him like nothing happen. It happened 3 times like that already that make us felt weird and try supernatural solution instead.

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 01:43 PM

Ok..I think I know why. She might get angry at that moment, but after he sweet talk to her her heart become soft again and accept him back.
Maybe you could try introducing another guy to her..then she might compare both of them and realise how bad is he treating her. She just want someone to care for her..so try to find other thing/ or someone else to replace him.

got candidates?

i'm bloody surprised noone bothered to ask this....

how old is your sister dude.....

21.... Err why?

Just tell her to register an acc here..xP

She's old enough to choose her own destiny, leave her alone

Muscular? wow I also like muscular men like darklight79 hehehehe

Your sister knows what she's doing la. She needs to get screwed then only realise her mistake.

Like a kid, who is stubborn and dont listen to people not to touch a hot kettle. Once kena, forever smart already.

aiyooo what u mean by "kena"?? I don't want my sis to 'kena' whatever he give her. Plus a gang member who 'paw paw' college freshies? Hell no!!

Since when mascular guy get interest with girls? i bet u the one who flirting around them huh?

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 02:46 PM

You see, you wanted to destruct her relationship so that she don't get hurt... but in the end she is the one who actually get hurt. You will never know that the guy you are asking her to let go maybe is the guy she have waited for all her life.

Well.... if that supernatural things is true, she maybe can forget him. If not, i will make that guy go to jail or something like that.

Newton's 3rd law. Remember this.

The harder you push her, the harder she will resist you.

u say its impossible to leave it alone, then wat will u do?

u wanna trap her in a room? u wanna kill the guy?
21 years old = adult

you know romeo n juliet? they run eloped n drank poison for their love.

the more u try to pull her away, the more she will push you away.

some lessons in life are harsh. and it is her decision to make.

U don't understand do u? If she gonna marry that guy she must got permission from my father as a guardian otherwise she will marry in thailand which is illegal. She can't forget him bcoz that guy always sweet talk with her or whatsoever give that supernatural drink(if it's true) The things can do are

1) make that guy forget her by bribing him, (which a gang member like to) so my sis will no longer get a sweet talks.

2) set up a trap which make him go to jail

3) find other good guy for my sister, which the only suggestion that useful since i open this topic.

Yeah there is nothing much you can do.
I know how much you want to protect her and want the best for herself.
but.. remember we can't force people to do or like on what we want to.

Just let her know that you will always be there for her.
and pray to the God hopefully she will always happy ok.

p/s: yeah it is true about some girl addicted to sex and they care nothing more about the man's background.

A phailure branding some one else as a phailure

Good luck in finding your solutions

Confucious says: nan ren pu huai, ni ren pu ai

a brother's worst nightmare,

if that guy treat u like (&@*, u know the drill (pain)

Pay a group of rempits to kau tim him. j/king.

Just be sure to be there when your sis finally realise she was wrong.

i'm afraid my mom will halau her b4 that happened
Recently my mom already not talk to her anymore and feel like u know... not treat her like her child

She don't have to have any permission from her parents should she decide to get married. Any witness will be sufficient at the registrar of marriage.
At 21 you don't need any guardian, dum dum.

Thailand don't recognize you unless you're a citizen.

A friendly reminder, you forgot to touch on the supernatural aka God Stick yet

Oh, that isn't a bad idea actually.

I even recommended him to look for a medium to excrete his spiritual sperms into her to ward off all evil.

Thus saving her from loosing her virginity to the bad guy

she's 21 she should have enough brains to know what is right and wrong. The more u attempt to make her break up with him, the more she'll resist u and wanna be with him. its that simple.

As for superstition like all that jampi BS, seriously, wtf. it can be explained easily like, "he's a sweet talker" or "your sister is a brainless bimbo"

whatever it is, 21, she has a will of her own, and the harder u push the less she'll see u as a caring brother and more of an enemy.

your family has opinions, fine, then let her learn the hard way. WOrse come to worse, she gets her heart broken, boohoo.

best thing that could happen, they live happily ever after after all.

your family pushing so hard for a break up gives the guy much credibility, as being seen as a romantic guy who's willing to be with a girl and tahan the retarded family scenario

Haiiiihhh the problem is we're muslims, suppose to get married in proper way, that's why my parents don't 'restu' her to in love with him thus get married. U want our family get 'conteng arang' one??

U guys still don't understand the situation. Forgot to tell u that guy not muslim. It's fine for us if he's a good guy no matter his race or religion but not with SAMSENG..... U know what, i think that guy is a future Ah Long.

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Added on June 2, 2009, 5:26 pmlolzzz what the hell..... if to my gf can lorr do this one

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 05:26 PM

She's 21, she's an adult, she has a right to decide her own life.

This post has been edited by n00b13: Jun 2 2009, 05:34 PM

u THINK. u ASSUME. and you're judging him from his PAST GIRLFRIENDS.

This reminds me of the movie "Sepet"

we accept her if fall in love with other race, we not racist are we? We even encourage her to find someone else if she interest with non-malay guy, but not this one. This one is samseng lorrr. Can u believe he even talk trash to my mom and threatening my older sis? People around college already claim that he's playboy and ugut2 gang for money among college freshies. My older sis already take a pic of him hugging and kissing with other girls and show to her but still she can't forget him. What the hell is this mess?

in THAT case, your sister is an idiot. and when she's a bimbo idiot. and bimbo idiots just dont listen to sense, UNTIL they get burned themselves. so all u can do is wait and watch and be sure to be there to catch her when she falls. like i said, pushing her to break up merely reinforces the idea that u are her enemy.

So many people have told you already that she's an adult, she has the right to decide her own life. I'd tell you that there's nothing you can do except support her no matter what she decides...

...but you're obviously not listening.

So I have only one last thing to say to you.

"Jampi"??

Oi, you ni Melayu zaman mana? Ini abad ke-21 lah, you percaya lagi benda-benda karut macam ni? Tak pergi sekolah ke??

This post has been edited by n00b13: Jun 2 2009, 05:40 PM

oii i kata kurang percaya takde la kata tak percaya langsung.....
u not believe jin and devil?

the religous man(ustaz) said my sis had drink some kuil water in batu cave. It might be true, coz that samseng guy wear a curious ring with suspicious symbol.

Where got such thing as "kurang percaya"? Either you believe or you don't. Either you're an educated person or a superstitious idiot.

No I don't. I believe in what I can see with my own two eyes. Those people who believe in "jin and devil"? They're the
ones who kena rogol by bomoh.

Now you're getting racist again.

And if I were you, I'd find a different ustaz. Someone who isn't a superstitious idiot and a racist.

I LOLed at this thread and the replies. Especially entertaining was the jampi, bomoh and suspicious symbols part ^^

Sorry, I have no good suggestion...infatuation really blinds you.

If can, bribe the gangsta...if he doesn't accept means that he really loves your sis.

Be sure to record the whole process of bribing with your camera phone, so that in case he accepts, you can show it to your sis, thus proving what a jerk he is.

got the photos of the bad guy? we help u whack him the next time we see him... if he ask why u whack me? we will answer... you "yong sui"... sui

Hmm ... seriously. Put some distant between both people.

Like suddenly the whole family move to Canada.... Yes that is a good idea. Usually samseng kampung effect is only limited to kampung area only.

Or.. for those who believe in jin or hantu or bomoh. Their effect is only local. Won't work if sea separate em, . So there is lot of sea between Canada and Malaysia

Think about that.

is this plot like from a chinese movie scene or something?

because it is starting to ring some bells, but i cannot figure out the movie name.

it's not bomoh lorr he's Ustaz like Harun Din one, if u don't believe Harun Din then u no believe in God. I less likely to believe bcoz some case are true some case are not. So cannot 100% believe all the Mystery Nusantara. . Even in hysteria cases most of religous type person claim it's related to both supernatural and psychology. Am i an idiot? I doubt that.

p/s: My god, u not believe in devil? U not muslim are u?

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Added on June 2, 2009, 6:09 pmThanks for the idea..... only someone like u can understand the situation

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 06:09 PM

Wait a minute... you're equating belief in a man to belief in God?

You think he's bloody Imam Mahadi, izzit?

And you want to lecture me on religion?

I'm afraid you are.

"Kuil water" from Batu Caves jampi your sister? You seriously believe that shit? Is there such thing as "masjid water" from Masjid Jamek that can turn good Buddhist girls into bohsias?

BUKAKLAH MATA woi. Sebab koranglah Melayu tak boleh maju. Your sister's better off with a samseng and along than staying under the same roof as you.

what's wrong with u man?? It's depend on that particular person to believe what he/she want, in fact we muslim got faith. If u questioning me.... well..... U judge yourself. Mod please band this guy from my topic since he questioning my religous faith.

No offense for those who non muslim, we muslims are prevented to drink any kind of holy water from other religion sacred place(church,kuil,tokong). That's what i know.

This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 06:25 PM

you yourself emphasized much on the jampi issue in your own thread dude. which would obviously bring about people either dissing superstition or approving of jampis. And we do not allow talking about jampis and how to curse someone etc.

so he's dissing your superstition, not your religious faith.

@noob13, while your points are valid, do not allow your rage and anger and spoil your own arguments by means of personal attack

@predatorazor, i would suggest to not be so superstitious as well, in case people take advantage of your beliefs and superstition.

and finally, i'm closing this thread for the following reasons.

1. Everyone is basically saying the same advice to u, and i believe u've read them as well in regards to what u shud do for your sister. I'm sure you'll understand and know what to do now

2. There's too much superstitious elements and emphasis in the thread, with the talk of jampi and everything. And keep in mind this is cupid corner, not a debate about superstition. I dun want this thread to descend into discussions about which bomoh or spiritual healer u shud see next

TS: feel free to PM me further for any further issues, i'm more than willing to listen if u disagree with me here, provided u have a valid argument

This post has been edited by Baronic: Jun 2 2009, 06:36 PM