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Sister in love with bad guy, i need suggestion
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TSPredatorazor84
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Jun 2 2009, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE(Miyako @ Jun 2 2009, 01:32 PM) Then you should show the sms to your sister together with any other proof and hope that your sis would realise what kind of guy is he. already proof of that guy mesra2 with someone else with pic and testimonial, but as i told, she kinda stunned and bit of angry and seem like to break up with him, but few days later she keep date with him like nothing happen. It happened 3 times like that already that make us felt weird and try supernatural solution instead. This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 01:43 PM
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Miyako
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Jun 2 2009, 01:48 PM
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QUOTE(Predatorazor84 @ Jun 2 2009, 01:43 PM) already proof of that guy mesra2 with someone else with pic and testimonial, but as i told, she kinda stunned and bit of angry and seem like to break up with him, but few days later she keep date with him like nothing happen. It happened 3 times like that already that make us felt weird and try supernatural solution instead. Ok..I think I know why. She might get angry at that moment, but after he sweet talk to her her heart become soft again and accept him back. Maybe you could try introducing another guy to her..then she might compare both of them and realise how bad is he treating her. She just want someone to care for her..so try to find other thing/ or someone else to replace him.
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TSPredatorazor84
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Jun 2 2009, 01:52 PM
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QUOTE(Miyako @ Jun 2 2009, 01:48 PM) Ok..I think I know why. She might get angry at that moment, but after he sweet talk to her her heart become soft again and accept him back. Maybe you could try introducing another guy to her..then she might compare both of them and realise how bad is he treating her. She just want someone to care for her..so try to find other thing/ or someone else to replace him. got candidates?
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Baronic
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Jun 2 2009, 02:00 PM
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Problem?
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i'm bloody surprised noone bothered to ask this....
how old is your sister dude.....
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TSPredatorazor84
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Jun 2 2009, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(Baronic @ Jun 2 2009, 02:00 PM) i'm bloody surprised noone bothered to ask this.... how old is your sister dude..... 21.... Err why?
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Miyako
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Jun 2 2009, 02:05 PM
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QUOTE(Predatorazor84 @ Jun 2 2009, 01:52 PM) got candidates?  Just tell her to register an acc here..xP
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^Hobbes^
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Jun 2 2009, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(Predatorazor84 @ Jun 2 2009, 02:04 PM) She's old enough to choose her own destiny, leave her alone
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happy4ever
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Jun 2 2009, 02:23 PM
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QUOTE(Predatorazor84 @ Jun 2 2009, 01:07 PM) We not gonna let her go into Devil's Trap. I think that guy still not take my sis "V" yet, if so, he already leave her, like common playboy suppose to do. I think that guy kept my sis for "love" but bang other girls. Such a moron  I plan to kick his a#$ someday but he's really a mascular person, plus got some gang. Crap. Muscular? wow  I also like muscular men like darklight79 hehehehe Your sister knows what she's doing la. She needs to get screwed then only realise her mistake. Like a kid, who is stubborn and dont listen to people not to touch a hot kettle. Once kena, forever smart already.
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TSPredatorazor84
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Jun 2 2009, 02:44 PM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jun 2 2009, 02:23 PM) Muscular? wow  I also like muscular men like darklight79 hehehehe Your sister knows what she's doing la. She needs to get screwed then only realise her mistake. Like a kid, who is stubborn and dont listen to people not to touch a hot kettle. Once kena, forever smart already. aiyooo what u mean by "kena"?? I don't want my sis to 'kena' whatever he give her. Plus a gang member who 'paw paw' college freshies? Hell no!! Since when mascular guy get interest with girls? i bet u the one who flirting around them huh? This post has been edited by Predatorazor84: Jun 2 2009, 02:46 PM
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ac_N1
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Jun 2 2009, 02:44 PM
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You see, you wanted to destruct her relationship so that she don't get hurt... but in the end she is the one who actually get hurt. You will never know that the guy you are asking her to let go maybe is the guy she have waited for all her life.
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happy4ever
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Jun 2 2009, 03:28 PM
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Newton's 3rd law. Remember this. The harder you push her, the harder she will resist you.
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exsea
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Jun 2 2009, 03:43 PM
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u say its impossible to leave it alone, then wat will u do?
u wanna trap her in a room? u wanna kill the guy? 21 years old = adult
you know romeo n juliet? they run eloped n drank poison for their love.
the more u try to pull her away, the more she will push you away.
some lessons in life are harsh. and it is her decision to make.
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TSPredatorazor84
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Jun 2 2009, 03:58 PM
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U don't understand do u? If she gonna marry that guy she must got permission from my father as a guardian otherwise she will marry in thailand which is illegal. She can't forget him bcoz that guy always sweet talk with her or whatsoever give that supernatural drink(if it's true) The things can do are
1) make that guy forget her by bribing him, (which a gang member like to) so my sis will no longer get a sweet talks.
2) set up a trap which make him go to jail
3) find other good guy for my sister, which the only suggestion that useful since i open this topic.
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ZamAdaII
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Jun 2 2009, 04:01 PM
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Yeah there is nothing much you can do. I know how much you want to protect her and want the best for herself. but.. remember we can't force people to do or like on what we want to.
Just let her know that you will always be there for her. and pray to the God hopefully she will always happy ok.
p/s: yeah it is true about some girl addicted to sex and they care nothing more about the man's background.
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^Hobbes^
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Jun 2 2009, 04:01 PM
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A phailure branding some one else as a phailure
Good luck in finding your solutions
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weichi
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Jun 2 2009, 04:11 PM
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Confucious says: nan ren pu huai, ni ren pu ai
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Ikruga
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Jun 2 2009, 04:12 PM
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a brother's worst nightmare,
if that guy treat u like (&@*, u know the drill (pain)
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Ignoramus
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Jun 2 2009, 04:17 PM
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Pay a group of rempits to kau tim him. j/king.
Just be sure to be there when your sis finally realise she was wrong.
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TSPredatorazor84
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Jun 2 2009, 04:19 PM
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QUOTE(Ignoramus @ Jun 2 2009, 04:17 PM) Pay a group of rempits to kau tim him. j/king. Just be sure to be there when your sis finally realise she was wrong. i'm afraid my mom will halau her b4 that happened Recently my mom already not talk to her anymore and feel like u know... not treat her like her child
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