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post May 31 2009, 08:42 PM, updated 15y ago

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post May 31 2009, 08:46 PM

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err.. i think u should give her some space? her own personal time?

cos we girls need to have our own space too sometimes.

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post May 31 2009, 08:48 PM

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uh it's a photo shoot. Sure you can voice your concerns, but it's not like she went so far away on a date with this guy? I don't blame her for being upset with you because you don't sound like you trust her one bit.
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haha u should be a muslim
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post May 31 2009, 08:49 PM

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post May 31 2009, 08:50 PM

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QUOTE(SerenityCalling @ May 31 2009, 08:46 PM)
err.. i think u should give her some space? her own personal time?

cos we girls need to have our own space too sometimes.
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 31 2009, 08:48 PM)
uh it's a photo shoot. Sure you can voice your concerns, but it's not like she went so far away on a date with this guy? I don't blame her for being upset with you because you don't sound like you trust her one bit.
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haha u should be a muslim
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hi TS,

you're not in extremely conservative attitude. What you're doing is right, you just care for her and wanted to know how is she doing from time to time. But maybe she dont understand it that she feels that you're overacting on it. You dont have to call and sms her whole day long when shes out with her friends. No one would ever like his/her partner to watch over her like this all the time. Sometimes you just gotta give her freedom i'd say. Make sure she understands your intention. Explain it to her. And you too on the other hand should understand and maybe let her do what she wants to do even taking up the photoshooting stuffs. But just let her know that you wanted to know where is she about. What you both need is to communicate and understand for each other more...
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why dont you go to the photoshot session with her? hmm.gif
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post May 31 2009, 08:54 PM

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why dont you go to the photoshot session with her? hmm.gif
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post May 31 2009, 08:55 PM

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I say you should talk to her about your feelings about this. If she don't change & continue be the same, you should play the cold shoulder attitude or even try to leave her. Be a man. Sometimes you hold too tight, it slips even faster. Otherwise you will ended up being hurt by her instead.
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post May 31 2009, 08:56 PM

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hi TS,

you're not in extremely conservative attitude. What you're doing is right, you just care for her and wanted to know how is she doing from time to time. But maybe she dont understand it that she feels that you're overacting on it. You dont have to call and sms her whole day long when shes out with her friends. No one would ever like his/her partner to watch over her like this all the time. Sometimes you just gotta give her freedom i'd say. Make sure she understands your intention. Explain it to her. And you too on the other hand should understand and maybe let her do what she wants to do even taking up the photoshooting stuffs. But just let her know that you wanted to know where is she about. What you both need is to communicate and understand for each other more...
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发什么明星梦 又 不是美过人
拍什么, 一天到晚拍拍拍, 拍个屁, bull shit there
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post May 31 2009, 08:57 PM

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Just let her be.Dont be over protective.
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totaly understand how you feel . .
got some1 wan spannar my gf till to the extend say my car smaller den his .
As a guy its normal you get worried , piss and insecure , but
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you have to learn to trust your gf .
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trust her decision in picking her friends
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don think so much about the BAD things

it really made your life easier .

when she wants to go out with someone that i hardly knew i would tell her i trust you but i don trust him .
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QUOTE(goiwy @ May 31 2009, 08:56 PM)
发什么明星梦 又 不是美过人
拍什么, 一天到晚拍拍拍, 拍个屁, bull shit there
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QUOTE(Cheesenium @ May 31 2009, 08:57 PM)
Just let her be.Dont be over protective.
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QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ May 31 2009, 09:00 PM)
totaly understand how you feel . .
got some1 wan spannar my gf till to the extend say my car smaller den his .
As a guy its normal you get worried , piss and insecure , but
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you have to learn to trust your gf .
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trust her decision in picking her friends
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don think so much about the BAD things

it really made your life easier .

when she wants to go out with someone that i hardly knew i would tell her i trust you but i don trust him .
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bang his car with ur car! rclxm9.gif for who spannar ur gf!

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Well perharps u can think of the future, if she is not loyal, shes bad girl or if she remains loyal, shes good one. Perharps u can use this as a way to test on her. Afterall there are more woman there. Something that we like does not mean it is good to us, something that we dont like, it does not mean it bad to us. Just as how we take sour medicine but it helps. So dont over do it friend, u are still 20, perharps when the time comes, u meet a better one. U does not to be very serious, perharps she never so serious also
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:00 PM)
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bang his car with ur car!  rclxm9.gif  for who spannar ur gf!
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Why dont you two go for a relationship counselling and get to know each other better, you and her aspirations, temperaments, characters and goals in life? And learn how to talk and solve disputes?
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how to bang . he drive C class i drive kelisa .
wan catch him oso hard .
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:54 PM)
basically i hate photographers...who only take model shoot...
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post May 31 2009, 09:16 PM

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QUOTE(seijiseimura84 @ May 31 2009, 09:06 PM)
Well perharps u can think of the future, if she is not loyal, shes bad girl or if she remains loyal, shes good one. Perharps u can use this as a way to test on her. Afterall there are more woman there. Something that we like does not mean it is good to us, something that we dont like, it does not mean it bad to us. Just as how we take sour medicine but it helps. So dont over do it friend, u are still 20, perharps when the time comes, u meet a better one. U does not to be very serious, perharps she never so serious also
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Why dont you two go for a relationship counselling and get to know each other better, you and her aspirations, temperaments, characters and goals in life? And learn how to talk and solve disputes?
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I think i'm good enough to counsel people...lol rolleyes.gif

QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ May 31 2009, 09:10 PM)
how to bang . he drive C class i drive kelisa .
wan catch him oso hard .
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I dont ts is being over-protective nor close-minded in this case.

Have you tried talking to her about how you feel? Let her know how much you care, then maybe she'll ditch her tidak-apa attitude a little.

Yes, we girls do need our space. But to not contact you for a whole day and leave you worrying about her safety, it is a lack of respect
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 31 2009, 09:11 PM)
why?
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I dont know..... But I respect those who take memorable, meaningful and qualities photos...
I'm not believe in "human- body-art" unsure.gif
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:16 PM)
I think i'm good enough to counsel people...lol rolleyes.gif
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You must be a fool to think that way. Thats how relationships and marriages fail because egoistic people think they are better. In the end, they all suffer and breakup.

Just go for the counseling. It opens both of your minds up and to bring up issues such as these you are facing to even financial matters etc.
They also do temperamental analysis like the Taylor Johnson and see how well you two know each other.
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If you love her like you say you do... TRUST her.

Because in the end, it all comes down to trust. However, leaving you to worry about her was a sh*tty thing to do on her behalf..

BTW, stop breathing down her neck.. it will only make her run over to that male photographer for comfort.

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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ May 31 2009, 09:19 PM)
I dont ts is being over-protective nor close-minded in this case.

Have you tried talking to her about how you feel? Let her know how much you care, then maybe she'll ditch her tidak-apa attitude a little.

Yes, we girls do need our space. But to not contact you for a whole day and leave you worrying about her safety, it is a lack of respect
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yaya...especially when I heard: "oh, I was too busy talking to my friends and forgot to sms you"
I know I will be neglected someday after she start to work... sad.gif
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Love lies on the power on giving, perharps u should understand her more rather expecthing her to understand u
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ May 31 2009, 09:20 PM)
You must be a fool to think that way. Thats how relationships and marriages fail because egoistic people think they are better. In the end, they all suffer and breakup.

Just go for the counseling. It opens both of your minds up and to bring up issues such as these you are facing to even financial matters etc.
They also do temperamental analysis like the Taylor Johnson and see how well you two know each other.
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where to look for counseling?
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QUOTE(chocoholic221 @ May 31 2009, 09:19 PM)
I dont ts is being over-protective nor close-minded in this case.

Have you tried talking to her about how you feel? Let her know how much you care, then maybe she'll ditch her tidak-apa attitude a little.

Yes, we girls do need our space. But to not contact you for a whole day and leave you worrying about her safety, it is a lack of respect
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i am a guy, and i agree.
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QUOTE(goiwy @ May 31 2009, 09:24 PM)
飞了她, 找新的女友就好咯!!!想那么多做什么


Added on May 31, 2009, 9:26 pm好马不吃回头草。。。你是一匹好马。。。。
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QUOTE(seijiseimura84 @ May 31 2009, 09:26 PM)
Love lies on the power on giving, perharps u should understand her more rather expecthing her to understand u
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as I more understand her...i more worry about her... doh.gif
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post May 31 2009, 09:29 PM

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worry is worry luv is luv....so means u worry her not luv her muahaha


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QUOTE(teongpeng @ May 31 2009, 09:32 PM)
i think u have to tell him in mandarin.
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 10:19 PM)
I dont know..... But I respect those who take memorable, meaningful and qualities photos...
I'm not believe in "human- body-art"  unsure.gif
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well you're gonna have to believe in it because in all honesty, I think photographers who take all those pictures you see in magazines have a lot more pay than those who take those "memorable meaningful quality photos"
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At the age of 20 I wouldn't consider her a girl friend yet. I rather have more female friends than girl friends. Why tie yourself so early and yet complain?
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hmm...just give her some space n time...if she still like tat, then i think u need find another way... biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ May 31 2009, 09:36 PM)
well you're gonna have to believe in it because in all honesty, I think photographers who take all those pictures you see in magazines have a lot more pay than those who take those "memorable meaningful quality photos"
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is not the problem of money...but is my rule
Reader digest and Top gear malaysia are only mag I buy....there contain zero sexy girl photos....
that kind of art is a packaging of sex and lust
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:26 PM)
where to look for counseling?
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http://www.clm.org.my/events/index.html

You dont need to be married for this.

I had mine with a counselor friend of mine 7 years ago, in our 1st year relationship with my mate. On and off when we do have difficult issues to discuss, we seek his advise.

We also did this: http://www.tjta.com/ to get to know each other better. We learn how to talk things through and see from each other's perspective.
We also learn how each person's upbringing and their relationship with their family/parents will be a big influence on how they will interact and relate to you. So by analyzing their family background, you can form a rough idea how she would react to you, and thus formulate your tactfulness to properly interact with her to avoid and prevent conflict, and vice versa.

Conflict resolution isn't easy, but neither is it impossible. If you love your woman, then go for such counseling to prepare a fruitful road ahead of you smile.gif

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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:42 PM)
is not the problem of money...but is my rule
Reader digest and Top gear malaysia are only mag I buy....there contain zero sexy girl photos....
that kind of art is a packaging of sex and lust
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TS, the only worst thing that could happen is the photographer taking picture of hers to be shown in playboy magazine...
maybe you should accompany her or at least know her photographer

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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ May 31 2009, 09:38 PM)
At the age of 20 I wouldn't consider her a girl friend yet. I rather have more female friends than girl friends. Why tie yourself so early and yet complain?
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My friends are almost females, but I dont have the energy to flirt around because I focus much on my career.... I complain because I love her....hope u understand...

QUOTE(tituslee @ May 31 2009, 09:40 PM)
hmm...just give her some space n time...if she still like tat, then i think u need find another way... biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ May 31 2009, 09:46 PM)
http://www.clm.org.my/events/index.html

You dont need to be married for this.

I had mine with a counselor friend of mine 7 years ago, in our 1st year relationship with my mate. On and off when we do have difficult issues to discuss, we seek his advise.

We also did this: http://www.tjta.com/ to get to know each other better. We learn how to talk things through and see from each other's perspective.
We also learn how each person's upbringing and their relationship with their family/parents will be a big influence on how they will interact and relate to you. So by analyzing their family background, you can form a rough idea how she would react to you, and thus formulate your tactfulness to properly interact with her to avoid and prevent conflict, and vice versa.

Conflict resolution isn't easy, but neither is it impossible. If you love your woman, then go for such counseling to prepare a fruitful road ahead of you  smile.gif
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dont tell me this christian missionary haha just joking
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:42 PM)
is not the problem of money...but is my rule
Reader digest and Top gear malaysia are only mag I buy....there contain zero sexy girl photos....
that kind of art is a packaging of sex and lust
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That is your perception. If she doesn't share the same with you, then what?

If you fear for her safety, here are some things you can do:

1) Find out the background of the modelling agency and find out their reputation (including photographers)

2) Accompany her and pretend to enjoy the outing.

And never be too possessive.
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QUOTE(arthurlwf @ May 31 2009, 09:48 PM)
TS, the only worst thing that could happen is the photographer taking picture of hers to be shown in playboy magazine...
maybe you should accompany her or at least know her photographer
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I this could happen....I will be single next week


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http://www.clm.org.my/events/index.html

You dont need to be married for this.

I had mine with a counselor friend of mine 7 years ago, in our 1st year relationship with my mate. On and off when we do have difficult issues to discuss, we seek his advise.

We also did this: http://www.tjta.com/ to get to know each other better. We learn how to talk things through and see from each other's perspective.
We also learn how each person's upbringing and their relationship with their family/parents will be a big influence on how they will interact and relate to you. So by analyzing their family background, you can form a rough idea how she would react to you, and thus formulate your tactfulness to properly interact with her to avoid and prevent conflict, and vice versa.

Conflict resolution isn't easy, but neither is it impossible. If you love your woman, then go for such counseling to prepare a fruitful road ahead of you  smile.gif
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OMG...thats her church!...emmm I think so

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QUOTE(seijiseimura84 @ May 31 2009, 09:50 PM)
dont tell me this christian missionary haha just joking
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Stop being an idiot. These counselors are trained in counseling that cannot bring religion into their counseling. My counselor is also my church elder who counsels non-Christians too. And its against the law to be prejudiced based on religion, i.e. no religious talks, else they will lose their counseling license.

it aint easy obtaining the license too.


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OMG...thats her church!
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Nope it isn't my church

Its for non-Muslim pre-marital counseling. Muslims have their own pre-marital counseling.

Focus on the Family is another one resource.

Read the bottom part:

COURSE FACILITATORS
Licensed counsellors and certified facilitators for the government’s SMARTSTART Pre-Marriage Education.


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QUOTE(happy4ever @ May 31 2009, 09:54 PM)
Stop being an idiot. These counselors are trained in counseling that cannot bring religion into their counseling. My counselor is also my church elder who counsels non-Christians too. And its against the law to be prejudiced based on religion, i.e. no religious talks, else they will lose their counseling license.

it aint easy obtaining the license too.


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Nope it isn't my church

Its for non-Muslim pre-marital counseling. Muslims have their own pre-marital counseling.

Focus on the Family is another one resource.

Read the bottom part:

COURSE FACILITATORS
Licensed counsellors and certified facilitators for the government’s SMARTSTART Pre-Marriage Education.

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Em...am I getting this wrong? Calvary Life Ministries = Calvary Church?
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Problem started in....
A male photgrapher solo her
I dont get it now, whats wrong with this?
Just because they are alone that time so means must be something sweet and climax-able thing happen to them?
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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 09:59 PM)
Em...am I getting this wrong? Calvary Life Ministries = Calvary Church?
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Read this: http://www.clm.org.my/about_us/index.html

It was setup by the church as an NPO group that targets the general public regardless of their religion. Their sole purpose is to help with mental health issues which includes relationship problems.

And no, you wont get brainwashed either. its strictly for counseling purposes. if you find them trying to convert you while counseling, report them and have the counselor license revoked.

And no, CLM is not Calvary Church. The church is a church. CLM is CLM. Two different functions.

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QUOTE(anti-informatic @ May 31 2009, 10:00 PM)
Problem started in....
A male photgrapher solo her
I dont get it now, whats wrong with this?
Just because they are alone that time so means must be something sweet and climax-able thing happen to them?
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i mean...are she respecting me as a bf?

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post May 31 2009, 10:08 PM

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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 10:06 PM)
i mean...are she respecting me as a bf?
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The same thing can be asked, are you respecting her as your gf?

See how subjective the matter is? tongue.gif
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post May 31 2009, 10:08 PM

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dude u nid to take chill pill . going out with a guy doesnt mean she doesnt respect you
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post May 31 2009, 10:09 PM

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QUOTE(Doopleganger @ May 31 2009, 08:42 PM)
Any ideas to repair this relationship?
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Grow a pair of balls and stop being so insecure. Your GF may have some issues of her own, but your issues need to be fixed first.
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post May 31 2009, 10:10 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ May 31 2009, 10:05 PM)
Read this: http://www.clm.org.my/about_us/index.html

It was setup by the church as an NPO group that targets the general public regardless of their religion. Their sole purpose is to help with mental health issues which includes relationship problems.

And no, you wont get brainwashed either. its strictly for counseling purposes. if you find them trying to convert you while counseling, report them and have the counselor license revoked.

And no, CLM is not Calvary Church. The church is a church. CLM is CLM. Two different functions.
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I see I see....pretty clear right know...thanks for ur enlightenment..


Added on May 31, 2009, 10:11 pm
QUOTE(happy4ever @ May 31 2009, 10:08 PM)
The same thing can be asked, are you respecting her as your gf?

See how subjective the matter is?  tongue.gif
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maybe No.

QUOTE(zacharyyeo @ May 31 2009, 10:08 PM)
dude u nid to take chill pill . going out with a guy doesnt mean she doesnt respect you
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ok

QUOTE(silverhawk @ May 31 2009, 10:09 PM)
Grow a pair of balls and stop being so insecure. Your GF may have some issues of her own, but your issues need to be fixed first.
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will fix myself first ..thanks for advices

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