so far she is the best i can find...is too difficult to maintain a open-minded gf as well as close-minded one
I think i'm good enough to counsel people...lol

kesian...u can craft some art on his car when you saw it park somewhere

I dont ts is being over-protective nor close-minded in this case.

Have you tried talking to her about how you feel? Let her know how much you care, then maybe she'll ditch her tidak-apa attitude a little.

Yes, we girls do need our space. But to not contact you for a whole day and leave you worrying about her safety, it is a lack of respect

I dont know..... But I respect those who take memorable, meaningful and qualities photos...
I'm not believe in "human- body-art"

You must be a fool to think that way. Thats how relationships and marriages fail because egoistic people think they are better. In the end, they all suffer and breakup.

Just go for the counseling. It opens both of your minds up and to bring up issues such as these you are facing to even financial matters etc.
They also do temperamental analysis like the Taylor Johnson and see how well you two know each other.

If you love her like you say you do... TRUST her.

Because in the end, it all comes down to trust. However, leaving you to worry about her was a sh*tty thing to do on her behalf..

BTW, stop breathing down her neck.. it will only make her run over to that male photographer for comfort.

This post has been edited by Amoureuse: May 31 2009, 09:23 PM

yes...talked to her over and over again.... she will forgot everything on next morning^^

yaya...especially when I heard: "oh, I was too busy talking to my friends and forgot to sms you"
I know I will be neglected someday after she start to work...

Love lies on the power on giving, perharps u should understand her more rather expecthing her to understand u

where to look for counseling?

i am a guy, and i agree.

another epic!

as I more understand her...i more worry about her...

english in an english forum.

worry is worry luv is luv....so means u worry her not luv her muahaha

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Added on May 31, 2009, 9:30 pmoh yeah sorry ya

This post has been edited by goiwy: May 31 2009, 09:30 PM

i think u have to tell him in mandarin.

actually he un chinese de ....haha

well you're gonna have to believe in it because in all honesty, I think photographers who take all those pictures you see in magazines have a lot more pay than those who take those "memorable meaningful quality photos"

At the age of 20 I wouldn't consider her a girl friend yet. I rather have more female friends than girl friends. Why tie yourself so early and yet complain?

hmm...just give her some space n time...if she still like tat, then i think u need find another way...

is not the problem of money...but is my rule
Reader digest and Top gear malaysia are only mag I buy....there contain zero sexy girl photos....
that kind of art is a packaging of sex and lust

http://www.clm.org.my/events/index.html

You dont need to be married for this.

I had mine with a counselor friend of mine 7 years ago, in our 1st year relationship with my mate. On and off when we do have difficult issues to discuss, we seek his advise.

We also did this: http://www.tjta.com/ to get to know each other better. We learn how to talk things through and see from each other's perspective.
We also learn how each person's upbringing and their relationship with their family/parents will be a big influence on how they will interact and relate to you. So by analyzing their family background, you can form a rough idea how she would react to you, and thus formulate your tactfulness to properly interact with her to avoid and prevent conflict, and vice versa.

Conflict resolution isn't easy, but neither is it impossible. If you love your woman, then go for such counseling to prepare a fruitful road ahead of you

TS, the only worst thing that could happen is the photographer taking picture of hers to be shown in playboy magazine...
maybe you should accompany her or at least know her photographer

This post has been edited by arthurlwf: May 31 2009, 09:48 PM